Guys,
Right I'm posting this because I've been running through what I should have done in my head for the past couple of days, and some help from more expierienced dudes would be helpful, rather than just sitting mulling it over.
Ok so i've been in the game about 3 months now, but only started to really overcome my AA in the last month, talking to loads of sets just to get my confidence up. i went out one night near where i'm based and this was the case, no real drama's at all... So I was back home the next night and went out and met a few old friends (two girls who were desperate to get me and my mate out, and their friends) The two of us walk in, go to the bar, get a drink each and walk over to where the group is sat, Remembering to smile on entry as practiced and have my body language right, etc. instantly get IOI's from two girls that I didn't recognise in the group, the hottest convieniently sat at 90 degrees to one of the girls who had invited us out.
I say hi to my friends, who over-enthutiasticly jump up and hug me, then crouch down in the corner between this HB8 and my friend and my mate stands behind me talking to the girls across the table. So I starting chatting with HB and her buddy and to my friend next to me. After alot of small talk with some good old fashioned push/pull and negging thrown in, she compliments me on how chilled out i am, more fluffing and things are looking good. I lost them after this, it was a big group, to be honest I expected it, no drama's, just enjoy the night and sarge other women... easier said than done in an army town... anyway, later we all met back up again and she's straight back talking to me.
We're walking home now and she can't pull herself away from me, giving me all sorts of signals and IOI's and the full come on. Complaining that she can't walk in her ridiculous shoes any more after she stumbled in a club earlier that night, she asked for a piggy back off of someone, looking at me... well I thought I may as well... I was a bit drunk and any ideas of this not working to my favor had gone
. still i carried her for about quarter of a mile to her friends house where she was staying and helped her inside, negged her a bit for being lazy etc
.
This was when it started to head downhill, her attitude didn't seem to change much towards me, but everything that I had learned started to fly out the window holding up the two finger salute. I checked her ankles to make sure they wern't broken etc and after some crappy fluffing and her friend even sayin that I could stay there the night, I didn't make any fucking move! I said "oh where's (my mate that I had come out with)?" and about ten minutes later, "I best go after him, bit harsh to just leave him like that, i thought he was coming in." etc, and left. she said it was nice to have met me blah blah blah and so did i etc... no n-close, no k-close, and even though it was gonna be so bloody easy, no f-close!!!!
Guys any ideas what I should have done to get her into the bedroom, without looking like a right AFC? Like I say all the signals were there I just froze because i couldn't think what to do...
Please help so that I can learn for the next times
Cheers
Val
CHAT
