This applies to two things, both seperately, and when combined. I consider myself a bit of a family man. Not the kind with a wife and kids, the kind who is close to his family, aka my older brothers and their kids, as well as sometime my parents. We'll all go to out to eat and such, and when I'm out at dinner, I'll see really attractive girls, who sometimes are out with their family.

How do I either discreetly get some sort of attraction or attention between us, or get some sort of confidence or technique to approach them with my family around, and/or their family without it seeming sort of weird. I personally get a really weird feeling talkin about girls with my parents around, I just think it's kinda weird. Is that sorta immature?

So, 4 questions. Is there any way to discreetly approach girls with family around, is there any sort of technique of killing the awkardness, a way to make it easier for me to build up the feeling of comfortability with approaching women with family around, and am I just being immature?

Come on guys, I missed out on another girl today cause of this issue. Help me out!

I can't really help you, the only family I still see is my parents and sisters, each only a few times a year.

I'd also feel a little awkward doing pick-up around them though. I suppose something you could do is some under the radar / indirect / non-verbal game, until you can create a situation where you and the girl are alone and you start doing quick 1-set game.

E.g. During dinner just try and get some eye-contact going, smiling, etc.

Now, you're quite close with your family, so I suppose you could opinion open her (and the people she's with) with the topic you and your family are discussing. (If it is in any way interesting or DHV'ing for you.) Though it's a little hard to run kino-game etcetera. (If some guy is obviously hitting on your sister, how'd you react?)

Hope this gets you some ideas,
-Zero

Dude its something uv just gotta get over, and learn to use ur family as part of a routine.. Say a target and her family is at another table at a bar or something, open by saying Hey guys im just gonna hide out here for a minute, my mums so embarrasing.. Bla bla, or, just be blatently direct. Last year at the club where i work the was a 42 year old milf sitting with her dad, older brother, sister in law and nephews. I strolled right up and told the milf i needed to speak to her outside, her family looked confused if not worried.. As soon as we were outside we kissed and swapped numbers. Get in with the parents first if u can, compliment them on how good they look for their age, it will then be easier for them to watch you hit on their daughters.
And with ur parents, so what, your hitting on chicks, your dad will be proud, your mother will get over it and your brother will want you to teach him! Haha

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you made a really good point. props. but my brother's are older than me and both have girls of their own. the rest was pretty good stuff though, i'll try to keep it in mind next time i'm out.