| There is a lesson to be learned from even a terrible night of sarging. I made mistakes not with my game but from the start so heres some lessons to be learned when getting ready to go out.
Lesson 1. Pick carefully who youre going out with. If the plan is to pick up try and go out with a fellow pua, if this isint possible try and go with someone who is chill, social competent and easy around girls. Do not go out with a group of drunk guys if you have any aspirations of getting laid, if you do ditch them when you hit the bar, also avoid going with afcs who have no knowledge of game. I went with drunk afcs
Lesson 2. Know your location. Though as a pua it doesnt matter where you go you shouldbe able to pick up any advantage helps, especially if you are new or inexperienced knowing your environment helps alot. You know the the physical place, what the people are like, what kind of environment/mood it has, may personally know bartenders hired guns anything helps so try and know the joint. I had know idea what the place i was going to was like or even where it was.
Lesson 3. Dont stop gaming. No matter what is going on the women are unreceptive, your off your game, youre sick, you got a zit dont stop because if its going poor you will only sit and brood and get in a rut. Take time to evaluate your game but keep on going. It can never hurt you to talk to women. Me.... the women were an older crowed and all seemed to have pms i could barely open a set without getting bitched out so i got pissed off and stopped for a while.
Lesson 4. Dont wing an afc. No matter what you do do not go in to a set with a complete afc, unless they have at least a preliminary understanding of game dont do it. All they will do is weigh you down, act like a fool, lower your social value and bring out the afc in you, no good will come of it. Myself after getting pissed off i decided if i brought in a wing it would help, so in we go i open a set with a women who doesnt even let me get through the opener without sarcastic shit, at this point my wing steps in, saved? No he is nervous and scared says something stupid to me, are you on drugs, and buggers off leaving me with this bitch whom i proceed to get in a verbal quarral with, not negging but rather fighting. After making her cry i leave.
Lesson 5. Dont start fights. Try to avoid starting a fight with anyone no matter how mad you are or how fun it is, you want to be the cool popular guy at the bar not starting shit with people. Dont start a fight with a girl no matter how bitchy she is (like above) this will lead to her friends being pissed at you male and female. Finally dont let fist fights start you get tossed and your nights done. After i made this girl cry she obviously told her friends cause a couple sets later the girls confronted me about this. So a couple sets on and i open an HB7, she brings up the crying thing, i managed to get her to turn on her friend realizing that she is actually a bitch, this brings her closer to me so i start trying to build attraction with a number game. At this time what is obviously her boyfriend steps in and asks wtf shes doing talking to me, im in no mood to try and keep up game to make him leave so i tell him to fuck off. He doesnt like that. He tells me to watch myself (by the way hes one of those douches with a faux hawk, tattoos and piercings who think theyre the toughest shit since rampage jackson). After more words i punched him in the face, he goes down and one of his friends i didnt see grabs me another runs at me and i kicked him in the stomach bust loose and run for the door the bouncers sees me running and steps in front of me i put an elbow in his face stumble out the door and get the fuck away from there.
My freinds told me the guy i punched was out cold and the bouncers knose was broken and bleeding everywhere, all in all a good end to a shitty night.
Lesson 6. Alway learn. No matter how good or bad a sarge goes always learn something. Something about your strategy, about girls, about yourself about anything.
I gave you guys 6 lessons that i learned so you dont have to figure them out out for yourselves, theres always more to know, and id like to see what any one else has to say.
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