OK so here is the deal... I'm a good looking guy and started to work out and got looks from girls, became really confident and outgoing and was talking to everybody... I just transfered to University of Texas at Austin and some shit went down with a girl and I lost a lot of my confidence.. plus I have this thing in my head that I'm not good looking enough or cool enough to get these super hot girls I see everyday.. if anyone knows about UT-Austin you will know how hot these Texas girls are! It's like whenever I see a hot girl I get really sad and start thinking negative thoughts like I will probably never get her she is so out of my league!! AHHH! What do I do! I guess I'm going to join a frat or something cause all these hot chicks are in sororities but I really wanna pay 2 gs and take mystery's boot camp class !!!

Long time no speak Kvee.

Well, apparently, your case is pure lack of inner game.Period.

Work on the confidence aspect. When you start to believe that you have the potential to attract women, then everything will fall into place.

Right now, you're in a bottomless pit. You're struggling to get out, yet fail to realize that all you need to do is start climbing. Eventually, you'll be out, and not even notice the time it took.

Start working on confidence, and keep building upon it. Confidence is not an act, but rather a habit. Just like excellence.

Work harder. You'll see the difference.

BLACK BULL!!! I lost it all man! and even when my confidence is at high when you see some of these girls you just sink back down in your self and youre like damn.. she is way too hot...like these are the girls that go with all these brad pitt looking guys I mean i just think to my self how am I supposed to compete with that? I am a great guy I have a lot to offer man I wish girls can know that and maybe things will be better... but yeah I will work on the confidence building.. thanks

The best cure for any man is to go sarging.

I think you're in a viscious cycle at the moment of feeling inadequate and portraying that in your demeanor. I recommed you do this:

Set yourself a target - talk to 50 girls this week (no matter how hot or ugly) and don't even consider them as potential fucks. Just talk to them as if they were your sister - this way you have nothing to lose.

When you have done that, change your target to something more - 3 # closes this week.

When you achieve that target, keep escalating and improve your game over time. I think the problem is deep down you know you can get these girls and you are pissed that your game is not what is should be. But set small goals and work your way up the ladder of success.

I was the same as you at uni..I'm a good looking guy, well built but I couln't understand what the fucking problem was. I felt like I was wasting such a good opportinuty. Then one day, I stopped putting the pussy on a pedastall a sudden they were knocking on my door.

If you go out sarging 3 nights in a row and don't get shit, its not a waste.....you're 3 nights more experienced than you were before. Learn from it.

Absolutely correct Temujinn.

That's the path Kvee.

But, a note.

Dont go for just Sarging. Find other hobbies as well.

Talk to women, but also find a distraction to keep you occupied.

Yeah, I've had the same problem before. Same reason and everything. I lost "the" girlfriend. Everytime we would split up. It killed my confidence about everything. I did this to help me with confidence issues, and getting it back.

Go out sarging. What helped with me was starting small. I would go out and cruise around ( coffee shops and whatnot, downtown etc. ) Kind of stay away from the "night club scene" at first. Go out during the day, where targets are in motion. I made it a point to just say "hi" and crack a half smile at ever HB 6 and up, that I passed. You have to start small. I know this has been repeated on these boards before. Really. Eventually especially if your an attractive/appealing looking guy. You'll notice some of the girl's faces light up when you say "hi". It will build from there, and eventually you'll be "oh shit. Yeah, I still got it". I hope this helps. It did for me. Texas girls much less UT girls are pretty intimidating if you lost your confidence. Nuff respect.

All these are great and true and you need to do them, but I would add something. It sounds to me like you are also letting the "UT" girls intimidate you just for the fact that they ARE UT girls. Forget that man. Listen, I live by two big colleges and a couple of smaller community colleges too, all in my city. Plus there's a couple of colleges in nearby towns, and those girls come to this town too. So we have HB10+ HOTTTT girls here in this town alot, at the night clubs, and out during the day. You know what? Inside, it may be down deep, but it's still there, they are JUST LIKE YOU. It's just that their inner game is much better than yours because they don't LET themselves be intimidated. You've just got to get that pedestool out of your mind man. The thing that sucks about the pedestool is that they can tell if you have them on one before you even talk. So, you need to get your inner game straight, and keep your mind from elevating their status immediately upon seeing them. THAT will translate to your actions, WHICH will translate to them WANTING YOU.

L.A. Tripp is right. Once you stop putting them on a "pedastool" persay. The balance of power shifts.

I hope these work for you.

The more things you have to bring to the table and offer with these types of women, the more confident you will feel around them and the more you will believe 'that you have the potential to attract women'.

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