Ok, So me and a mate went out.. opened up a two set, and got their numbers..

im really shy when it comes to talking to girls - i just have NOTHING to say to em! so my mate was doing all the talking.. near the end, before we were going to leave - my mate asks them for their number and he goes heres your chance.. i held back a little bit and one of the girls goes to me 'do you have facebook' and i say to her.. yeah i do but i dont used it a lot.. so dont bother adding me.. and then she goes 'whats your number' we were talking about stuff before and i said 'i dont have a phone' so when she asked me for my number i said to her '1800 reverse' and we started laughing.. i did end up giving her my number and she saved it in her phone.. i said to her 'arent you going to prank me.. u number hog' and she says 'oh opps.. blushes.. yup'

so we left and then the next day i msged her saying it was good talking to you have a great time blah blah blah we should all meet up again and have coffee.. she agreed..

so now i have to organise a day/night to have coffee.. it will be my mate.. me and the other two chicz..

what am i supposed to say to the bird im going for? how to i break the touch barrier and possibly kiss close the coffee date..

cheerz

you can talk about nearly everything, for example:

1 - You & them. It's almost always a good idea to talk about yourself, so long as you allow them to talk about themselves as well. Tell them a little bit about where you are in life, a little of your past, and where you hope to be in the future.

2 - Your families and friends. It's also good to talk about your family and friends, more so to give them an idea of how you came to be the person sitting before them today, then stories about people they have never met.

3 - Your jobs. Talking about your job is usually pretty safe, so long as you're neither too shy with details nor too windy with background.

4 - Favorite pastimes. Hobbies, pets, passions etc. Talk about the things you like, and/or the things you like to do. This is the part of the conversation where you'll hopefully find some things in common with the other person.

5 - The thing that caused you to meet. It's always fun to relate the path you both took in meeting one another. It's also a good way to give a bit of a window into your lives, and to see how the other operates out there in the world.

6 - Something you notice about the other person. This one requires a bit of tact, because commenting on something you notice about another person can trigger unexpected emotions.

This is all pretty good stuff, but I'd like to make a few changes.

1. Make sure you start conversation more about them than you. Everyone likes talking about themselves, and that's why we let them.

2. It is indeed good to talk about family and friends, but if you want the girl to be attracted to you, you should also show that you have an attractive lifestyle, i.e. that you and your friends party alot (If you do). Make sure whatever you say is true.

3. Don't start talking work. It might be a safecard, but it's probably the most boring thing you can bring up, unless it is something that you really love or you are very dedicated to.

Hope this helps
Freemind

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