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Thank you for the reply,seems that the guys here didnt like my story
But what could have i done?
Anything i asked,she just answered:"yes,no",i was unable to go to anywhere.
would you mind in giving me some examples of how to control the set?
would "what have you got going for you other than your looks?" worked?
and,did how would you rate the interaction? like total crap? should i apporach her again?
i think when she walked with me,she was just being polite.
would be VERY helpful,hope you guys answer
It's hard to give an opinion of your conversation since most communication is in fact nonverbal and conveyed via body-language.
However, if you're asking her a lot of yes-or-no questions, you'll get a lot of yes' and no's. I think it's not a bad idea to just make open-ended, conversational statements while probing for her "hot-buttons" (or specific interests) and not "interrogating" her. Neil Strauss goes into this topic and had Juggler write a specific chapter in his book on all this.
And your interaction wasn't total crap if you learned something. You learn more from failures and setbacks than you do from successes...