It's not like me to post more than once a month, let alone 2 Field Reports in a few days but tonight was such a dissappointment I just have to get a bit of feedback on this.

So, this HB7 I know. She and I fooled around in November 09, we went to school together and things only really stopped because I met my (now ex) girlfriend. After things 'ended' between us we would often fool around again at parties and everytime she'd say 'Don't tell anyone about us.' Because one of her friends had a crush on me and many other bullshit reasons etc etc.

We've not fooled around for a while but last week I sent her a BBM saying 'Let's do something this Thursday.' She said 'Thursday's no good, how about Tuesday?' Tuesday worked for me too so I agreed, later on we changed it to tonight, Sunday.

So the plan had been for her to come over and watch High School Musical 2 and 3. I'd always tease her for showing me shit films and the first time we hooked up she'd invited me to her's to watch High School Musical 1 'because I had to see it!'. This was a nice touch I thought because it would remind her of the time when we were seeing each other and set the same tone as the night we first were 'together'

I couldn't get a copy of these films unfortunately and we decded to watch some other shit. She came over, dvd in hand and a big bag of sweets. I showed her around my house and then we got to my room. I said 'We can watch the film in here or downstairs. Your choice?' She sat down on the bed and I popped in the first DVD. At first she was lying on her stomach, at the foot of my bed. I did the same but it was fucking uncomfortable. I then lay back, propped against the headboard. After a while she did the same and I took this as a good sign. She voluntarily closed the distance.

However, there's was no real kino. I tried a little incedental Kino and some more overt kino when we were in conversation however it never seemed to illicit a closer SPAM or the desired response.

We popped in the next film and things were better, we were closer, flirting and laughing with the bag of sweets (sounds odd, you know what I mean.) But again, no meaningful kino or transition.

It was terribly frustrating. The point of her coming over was to catch up before I go travelling for 3 months in 2 fucking weeks. She eventually said she's getting tired and had to go. We hugged and I saw her out.

I'm so pissed with myself and it demonstrated a gaping hole in my game. I had no idea what to do in that situation. Does anyone have any advice or template for such a situation?

I think she was into me for the following reasons.

-She mirrored my body language to an extent, seating position etc.
-She was eager to come over, willing to come straight from work but I told her to come later.
-She and I have fooled around in identical circumstances in the past and she's smart enough to know what the general intention was.
-She was willing to sit through 2 fucking films waiting for my arse to make a move.

So, what's the verdict. Do you think she was interested? Do you think she sees me as simply a male friend and she was oblivious to the sexual undercurrent when watching soppy films in the dark on someone's bed?

I think this demonstrated that my game lacks good kino excalation and transition. And I can't seem to project my state very well.

So, any tips, opinons and advice are very welcome at this time. I'm just angry at myself.

What would be the best way to handle it with this girl in future given the limited time I have left in the area?

Thanks for reading, Tryst.

EDIT: I justy got a BBM saying 'Just got a Drunken phonecall from Jolly. (A guy she turned down to get with me in the past) Good to see you xx'

Trying to think of a reply which doesn't express my blueballedness.

Although I had no replies I thought I might as well update the topic.

After last week's disappoint decided that we weren't going to leave it at that, I used some direct text game and simply said 'I want to see you before I go away.' She agreed and she invited me over to her house last night.

Late yesterday afternoon our BBM conversation went:

HER:'I've had a rubbish day, I'll need a drink.'
ME: I won't be joining you, I'm driving.
HER: My parents are away. You can stay in the spare room if you like. Although I have to leave for work at 8.

So went over, and we watched TV, despite her saying she was going to have an early night we sat and talked and messed around until 1am. At this point we hadn't k-closed but my kino had been much better and more natural. As we eventually became tired we got up to go to bed, I thought that, again I'd fucked it up and hadn't moved fast enough but as she showed me to my room and turned to give me a hug she just stopped there, close in my arms and I could only hear her breathe.

I kissed her on the neck and then raised her face and we made out for a while. I was delighted because this girl is so hard to read and I had no idea where I stood with her. For instance, asking me over is a fantastic, very obvious sign. But then her body language is normally quite stand-offish even if she is compliant to my kino etc.

After we made out for a bit she stood up to leave as it was nearing 2am and she had work in 6 hours. I think maybe I could/should have pressed for more and made it clear I wanted her to stay in the spare room but I didn't.

We've agreed to meet again on Thursday and luckily all the long, long build up has been removed now and we both know where we stand.

I think the key in this story is perserverence in a very hard to judge situation for an inexperienced pua like myself. I managed to get out of a friendzone through natural game and much better body language and on top of that I've managed to break through the thick layer of bullshit in the way this girl acts towards guys she actually likes.

It was a tough one though and a definite learning experience. Any thoughts or opinions? I'd love to hear back from the community and get any tips or pointers.

Thanks, Tryst.