one of my classes in college has this girl i wanna get to know HB9 haha we've only had the class 4 times so far this semester. the first day i was just looking around checkin everyone out .

second class i spotted who i wanted and the seating arrangement is this:

...............Guy
.....ME......HB7
.....HB9

Day 2 i was just trying to be sociable, making comments when i could. The HB9 dropped her book so i picked it up and playfully said "im keeping this" , she gave a blank look haha, dont think she was expecting that.

Day 3 started with another kind of blank 'no' from HB9 when i asked did she have a spare pen... BUT the teacher made her read in the class and i made her laugh by teasing her about it. (we were reading greek stuff and i said something like "make sure you put on an ancient greek accent"). She laughed and that was the first sign of any emotion in this girl so i felt like it was getting better. Also got talking to the guy just about sports etc, and had a few breaks with the HB7 , nothing interesting.

Today (Day 4) my goal was to get all 4 of us to agree to hang out at the local sports bar (kind of like a class friends gathering thing). Although i didn't see any time to ask because we only have a few minutes b4 the teacher arrives and like 1 min when class is over. I ended up asking the guy about the club and getting his number (haha) then swiveled around to the HB9 and asked if she wanted to come. .......heres the thing, I dont actually think she realised what was happening?? ( The guy did cuz he laughed haha) . So i kinda casually continued talking to the guy (as if it were nothing , cuz it coulda got awkward there) about meeting up and the HB9 left the class.

What do i do now? i don't think i failed yet , (ill know if the HB9 sits sumwhere else next class). What im thinking is to go with the guy and my other friends and have a fun time, then next class try and see if he'll encourage the other two girls to come next time?

anyone have suggestions on what i should do? i dunno if the HB9 is gonna go back and think 'what just happened there?". lol haha, it was a ballsy move it just could have been smoother and i need help fixing it!
thanks!

I'm going to tell you what she thinks.

you say, I'm keeping your book. She hears: Can I have sex with you.

You say anything else it is translated Can I have sex with you.

You need to accept that fact that a girl knows exactly what you want. You told her by telling her you want to keep her book. If a girl did that to you in class what would you think?

My advice. Pretend like she doesn't exist. Don't talk to her ever again, and go for a different girl. It's really your only strategy if you want to get laid. If you want a friend then maybe you can hang out with her if you get your mind right. Don't talk to a girl for no reason. Making a joke has an underlying intention. Would you joke around with your buddy and be like " hey dude, I'm keeping this book" He would be like WTF no your not, or I'll kick your ass.

Think about what you are doing from 3rd person. There is very little you can do. You just have to relax and go with it. trying to make stuff happen on day 4 is too soon. You might come off desperate. Let it happen slowly and naturally. Remember girls know what you want. They know!

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shit, i hear ya magnum. i'll ignore her for a while as you say. i'll let you know what her reaction (from last class) is when we have our next class which is gonna be next week. Hopefully its all good

hey man, best advice i could give in this sitcho is, (it seems like ur sitting in front? of her) sit next to her, left or right (tho it may be a bit late at this point) crack a joke, u know what they about blondes/brunettes/etc..her: nooo what??? welll...if youu dont know...IMM not going to tell you. from there on out not so much as the slightest glance towards her for the rest of the class. bell rings, you turn to her and say, put ur number in my phone, i'll call u (2 days from wenever) for coffee. takes SERIOUS balls and shows SERIOUSSS inner game which is what chicks are all about. in fact you may wanna do the next day so long as its not a friday. dont make it tooo long or she'll overthink the last 3/4 classes and may think ur a wuss for not doing it sooner. in fact she may already cuz of ur ploy to get her number last class. frankly, i dont even have the balls to do this.

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go out and get laid, thus says the lord

see im kind of in the same situation as you. one thing i will suggest, dont fall into her, i mean dont "fall in love" and be like "she is the one" cuz no she is not. but yeah go ahead and try to get her but dont be all mad/sad when she flakes.
im saying this cuz this is where im at right now. hb10, smart, good personality but shy.. got her number first (or second) class. went for coffee, studied together and i even drove her home twice. what i got from all this? nothing. absolutely nothing! not even a kiss. why? cuz i guess i fucked up somewhere and giving out too many game cards away. now she is just trying to use me "without me realizing it".
i called her she didnt pick up, i texted her after 10min: "hey X, my day is going good but do you want to make it better?"
her after 1.5 hours: "hey do you wanna study tomorrow after class?" (in other words: "do you want to tutor me and give me a ride home after?"
guess what, she will never see me again unless SHE wants to.

my point is, one doesnt work, go for 5 others. the more you got the better chances you get something out of it.

women r actually easier than you guys think. they just play hard to get. oorya, try this.. since the second guy caught on, use him as a wing man. but dont do it just yet. hb10's r used to being hit on, especially about their beauty. so u need to show interest in something other than beauty, compliment her taste in fashion, or if she does her nails, tell her u like her nails, and then go into a convo about the different types of designs or wateva...basically u just wanna open her up and get her comfortable to talking to u. the joke wit the book wasnt all dat bad, it shows u have a sense of humor and arent boring..once u got her in the comfort zone, u can try and build some kino, ie u sit down b4 she comes to class, and if she looks ur way, give her a wink & a smirk or nod of ya head. not in a flirtish way but sort of like in a hello way. read her body language, dats very important.. play it smooth, dont give any hints as to ur tryin to get with her just yet. just hints that ur attracted.. once u get her open and start talkin, u can build even more kino like hi 5's, brushin lint off her shoulder or pickin off loose hairs, etc.. try and find out what she's doing after class..if she has time for a brk, go for some coffee, if theres a starbucks near, then great!! make it a group thing and tell her something like hey, we're all going for some starbucks or whatever after class.. the hb7 is going and i thought it would be nice for you to tag along so she can have another female to have girly convo's with. if she accepts, then u got urself on a good start. take that time to get to kno her, build more kino!!! try that out and let me know how it goes

as for slimsta, keep doin what you doing..if this girl is single, dont even worry about being in the friends zone, just build on that kino!!! she wouldnt agree to study dates if she wasnt partially interested in you. kino is very important when tryin to get a girl open. if you guys study alone, perfect!!! whenever u drop her off, give her a kiss on the cheek b4 she leaves (good friendly kino) to get her mind thinking about sex, her's one of my favs...if she ever wears thongs, and you see her whale tail ( the triangle part of the elastic strap) tease her about it..tell her something like "oh ur a bad girl.. ur tryin to seduce me arent u?" its random and she gonna most likly give a dumb look & not kno what you talkin about. tell her that your a guy and you cant help but to notice a girl's whale tale when its showing.. if she asks what a whale tale is, then just simply grab her (in a controllin way but not too much force) and show her (touch the triangle part and say thats a whale tail) depending on how she reacts, you can either back off a lil or keep moving forward. its not easy to give u exact good pointers without u givin much detail. so try out what ive said so far, let me kno how it goes and nxt time fella's be as detailed as possible when writing ya stories..lemme kno what kinda body language, tone of voice, reactions, behaviors, everything..and i can sort of guide u in the right direction to at least gettin somewhere!!! lol but u gotta be brave and make the moves..MOST WOMEN WILL NEVER MAKE THE FIRST MOVE AND ARE ALWAYS WAITING FOR THE GUY TO INITATE THINGS!!!

thanks for the advice darkie! well i had class again with her on monday and just wanted to hold back a bit/watch and see if she acted weird or sat in a different spot since my failed attempt last week . but nope she was the exact same , i seriously dont even think she realized i was trying to get her number that class haha

our professor is usually a few mins late and the so the class hangs outside the room . shes usually there early so ima go a bit early next class and try talk to her a good bit. We had a snow day and hav a bank holiday on mon and tues so by the next time we have class together (next wednesay) it will have been a full 10 days since i last saw her.

do you have any advice besides just asking what she did over the break and stuff?. ill try put in some kino but i dunno this girl kinda seems slow to realize things haha shes really quiet so ima have to be a bit of a chatterbox and make her engage in convo lol

hows ur situation going slimsta?

oorya
did she give u any eye contact when she sat down?
next time you see her compliment her on something she's wearing.. and then ask her about it, where did she get it? is that her fav color? if not, whats her fav color? if she ever asks why, tell her becuz why is a crooked letter, and giggle, chuckle, wateva to make her kno it was just a joke, but dont answer why..lol sounds stupid but it will completly throw her mind off from thinkin ur hittin on her. and after that, being that valentines day is gonna be passed..talk about what she did, ask if her boyfriend took her anywhere special..this will give u more or less an idea if she's talkin to anyone. and trust me when i say if she completely ignores the boyfriend part, then thats an ioi...based on what she tells u, u can ask where did she go, how was the place or wateva..just build convo and get her comfortable talking to u for now...if she asks what u did, tell her u had 2 dates for vday, one for brunch and one for dinner (even if its a lie, make something up but show her that u do have other girls interested) make her think that they asked u out on the date and not u askin them...(remember, women want what other women want)i used it today and the hb's were jeolous, askin why werent they included into the busy schedule lol..