What does this really mean?

there are soo many girls out there ... some will be better than others ( in personal opinion. getting of the friendship zone is more work than getting new girls, if she isn't worth al that effort then find a new girl instead of wasting time.
what does it really mean in depth ?
probably a zillion things but i only intend to stick at one meaning, most of them are personal.

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i really like your zen approach, and no matter what spiritual system you believe in, its hard to deny that what you put out into the universe will come back to you...

well the one i was really talking about being friends with is actually a really cool girl with a lot of great things about her and a lot to give, so it would genuinely be a good thing to be friends with her if it never got past that...

but the other one, although she means well, is prone to be very selfish at times, not a coke-snorting bitch (i wouldnt bother with a girl who was a pia like that), Shes nice to other people just really cant be trusted to be there for you.. her im trying practicing the freeze out.. and she was the one who texted me friday... shes a textbook case for it....

i think im going to try to gradually pull back until she gets to texting me 90% and see where it goes..

but again, does anybody have a response for "what took you so long to reply?" - that seems to be a common response when you cut off a girl for a while and id love to hear some responses.. (or is this a question for another forum?)

thanks!

Easy response to that brotha-- Hey Was busy/ On the phone with a friend/ had to take care of something/ was at work. anything simple and vague. Get her wondering if your telling the truth or making up a excuse just like they do to us! But never get into much detail. All your doing is giving them the impression that they are not the most important think in your life. Separating you from the AFC.

i guess i just was afraid that if i responded something like "was busy" after it had taken a week to get back, it would be obvious i was playing games, but i guess that was just my own issue with doing something like this..

but on a side note, its important in general to not have them (or anybody) as highest priority so its always good to live that as well as give off the impression..

thanks!

No problem .. sometimes when I have a question like this I ask myself "whats something girls say to us when they are shady or haven't returned a call right away or in a week?". and just flip the script say what they would say to us.. whatever lines there using on us seems to have the proper effect. How many times have you heard "Omg! been soo busy was meaning to call you back blah blah blah blah."

that is a pretty good method...

ok, heres a followup question...
the consensus was that if she was into you, 30 day freeze out was enough for her to call.. well it was 25 days, so worked good...

now whats the consensus for the average time for second call. i just went back to my life to see if she would call again.. im not going to answer this time until the second contact

for reference, i waited 6 days to respond to the first contact, and when she asked why so long, responded with "sorry. i did get back to you though . how have you been? " - (i know, maybe a little harsh reply, but hey, im learning.. lol) couple texts back/ forth. she didnt repy to my 3rd text.

what do we think?