On New Years eve, i met an HB9. Throughout the night we were talking and dancing. I even kinoed her alot. She was with a group of 8 guys she went with to the party. So she gets alot of attention. Anyways, we exchanged numbers. Throughout the night she kept on telling me to call her because she is on vacation in the city till the 17th.

Unfortunately, two days later i called, and she didn't pick up. I was really pissed off because i didn't feel like being needy, but at the same time I wanted to spek to her. She's 18, I'm 23.. I called her yesterday. So when should I call her again!? I want to take her out, but at the same time, I don't want to ruin my social frame, as i'm the one who's older and cooler. HOw can i go about this?!

Might be various reasons why she didn't pick up. Is there anything cool going on in the next couple of days?

"Hey it's bla bla from the party, there's this cool bla bla show tomorrow night. Wanna go?"

Does SHE have YOUR nr?

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Hi, I need your female opinion on this...

I agree with the above, try again and dont mention her not picking up.

ya.. i think its the immaturity aspect because she's only 18.. i can tell she likes me btw she looks at me.. The whole time she was telling me to call her cuz she's here till the 17th..

Unfortuantely, i made the biggest afc mistake by telling her i liked her.. I was extremely drunk becasue it was new years eve. so its not something i would've normally done. but that didn't really change anything... she still kept on telling me to call her after that.. once right after i tole her "i liked her" and another time right before she left...

And yes, she does have my number...

The problem is i dont hang out with ehr friends because they were all freshmen in highschool when i was a freshman in college!! she's always with a group of 6 guys sweating her and to make that even worse, she's always with her older brother who doesn't ahve any friends in this city (because he never lived here).. I don't know how to isolate her or if i even need to...
thanks for your help guys.. so main consensus is that i shouldn't give up...??

Hey man,

I feel there's nothing wrong with telling a girl that you like her, especially when it is 100% true.

If I was in your shoes, I wouldn't call or think about her anymore and immediately focus on other things in life that are important to me.

Read this article I came across a couple of days back: http://www.attractioninstitute.org/call ... o-call-her

It might give you an insight on what might have happened or at least what you should do going forward.

Hope this helps..

Dude do not call her again. You called her twice already which is more than enough. If she was really that interested and/or mature enough she would have called back. The fact that she has not called you back says she isn't that into you and/or mature enough to call you back. So really why call her again? If she does not call you back by the end of the month delete her number.

On the maturity thing, do you really want a girl that immature?

yea man, i agree with jurupa. I wouldnt bother with her anymore, the more you call her the more value you lose. Besides, she's 18, your enegry could be spent somewhere else.

dont call. i usually call a girl once. if she's not picking up i wont call anymore. they usually see my number on there cellphone when i call. so they know i called.

if she really want to meet me she will call back. of course if she is really hot and cute, it will be hard.

i had it once called a girl didn't pick up. so i didn't call again. just giving her the space and eventually, she called back, after 2 or 3 days. she was a HB8, and a model.
or maby u can u can leave a message the first time you call.

I ended up running into her last night, and she told me she was on vacation with her famly and thats why she didn't pick up.. I didn't bring up her not picking up, and she just told me right away.. I did some minor kino and didn't really game her that much last night... But she still seemed into me... Should i give her a call this weekend?! or should i wait for her to call me... i didn't mention anyting abotu hanging out yesterday.. so i'm not a needy level right now..

Just wait and see. I'd wait for her to call. You tried, she failed. Now she can try and you get to decide wether to pick up the phone or not.

Attraction should come from both sides. If not: bye.

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Hi, I need your female opinion on this...

your absolutely right..

She's only hear until the 17th... so i know she doesn't really want to get emotionally attached to anyone so she doesn't get hurt... but i'll leave it at that.. i did all i could and if she doesn't recognize good game.. she can go suck an egg... lol

Hahahaha LOL. Yeah let her have an AFC. Ah come on, enough fish in the ocean for us hm. =)

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Hi, I need your female opinion on this...

So the girl appears into you and is on vacation but she is flaky when you try to call her. I would invite her and her friends to a party where you will be with some of your friends. Hopefully she will be more relaxed and just go for fun. Like you said, she seems into you when you see her, plus she will not be in the same city for long. I say go for a k-close next time you see her push the kino. Eventually go for a lay. Why not? She is not going to be around for long anyways

Sorry Drumbum08,

I think you f***ed this one up on your own...The girl is only staying in town til the 17th, and that night she kept telling you to call. In your post you said you wanted to speak to her, but you call her two days after...why wait. The girl is only here til the 17th, you think shes is going to sit around and waste that much time. Unfortunately I think she just found someone else to have fun with, without having to wait.


My two cents

salem alakoom

alaikum il salaam..

i dont thnk thats the case.. she's only here till the 17th and so she wants to hang out with a bunch of highschool friends that she hasn't seen for two years.. and at the same time she's with her family the whole time.. I keep on running into her because we have lots of mutual friends, but i'm playing it cool.. not calling her anymore, .. she'll have to call me.. i can do better than her so i really dont care anymore..