I'm not that great at attracting girls like you guys but when i get into a relationship
i'm able to get the girl to always fall madly in love with me, i guess its just a givin
talent. But my most recent ex is begging me to give her another chance but realy
i'm wanting to have an "open" relationship but i dont know how to tell her thats the
only way i would date her again.

I was there months ago.

It's wont work. You can either leave the game (in her eyes), and be with her, or live free and erase her form your lifestyle.

But now if you do something behind her back, secretively, that's your own business, and with it, it can bring depression, guilt, low self-worth, or confusion (a fog in your head, as in "Hi Jee.....Sarah, how are you?"). That's being a player. which is what fucked me BAD when most of them found out. What is it YOU want. Her? or Freedom? Love is more powerful than any piles of fools mate that could come your way. But that's just me.

Think about it for a bit.

I think ill just wing it and toss it out there with her. Its just going to either come to
that she is so crazy about me that she will just accept it or yell and rant which ill
just ignore and label me a player. Either way i guess i win with knoledge since i
havnt done this before. Wish me luck

Tell her the rules man. If she really loves you she'll accept them. If not, then too bad for her.

HELL YEAH! despite her incredible amount of jelousy when i'm around other girls i
have been successful in getting her to agree to be in an open relationship. Very
curious on how this will all play out in the end.

Not really, she's just saying that so you feel so good about her that you give up on every one else and just feel great about her. Also she very well might not realize this and be saying as if she means it, best believe she doesn't, (in her subconscious). If she's worth it, kick the other ones to the curb, if not, you know what to do.
H.A.D.

Well your rite about that. Saturday we got together and had sex for a about 3
hours and during she said "I dont want to be with anyone else" I'm think ok thats
your choice but I already told you my plan, but when i didnt say anything she said
it again so it was obvious she wanted me to say it to. Well I told her rite then you
are not the only person and I will be with other people, yes it was a bit harsh but I
wasnt going to sugar coat it to prevent it from poppin up later in the nite. Now im
thinking i want to break it off again because this might be an issue i wont want to
deal with and also starting to remember why i broke it off the first time with the
constant txting that kills my phone begging me to talk and when i do its about the
stupidest crap ever that makes me want to say "JUST SHUT UP!" I now dont
answer any of her txts or calls untill 8:30pm or later depending on who is over.

That's the life dude. I had to get on Valium for a while from blown up phone, running into people while making out with people, and the best one, having 3 chicks parked in front of my house all to "surprise" me with presents while thinking they were all exclusive to me...talk about fucking stress. That's why it's GOOD to make your point stick, and never pussy out and worry about them taking off. if she's still not down, goodbye!!! Women are notoriously good at trying to get you to commit to shit (i love you, i feel connected, ur the only one for me) while riding you thinking "hmm, he wont say NO, cuz im on his fucking cock!" good for you!

tell her the truth, you arent looking for anything serious right now and that you want to enjoy the single life. She'll probably bring up the open-relationship herself, if not you can make some comments about still being very sexually attracted to her. She'll come around, if not then forget about it. This isn't something you wanna insist too much on. Hope this helps.

dJ vIrAl