I have a problem! Im at uni, im fine with scripted stuff. I don't know what to say to start and approach someone. Im fine with scripted stuff but I just can't be funny, or spontaneous. I can tlak about general stuff where do you live. BUt when it comes and ive run out of stufff like that, i dont know what to say or where to go. I don't know how to be funny with a girl, or specially if im approaching a larger group (which ive never done)

There are plenty of exercises for this. One is the alphabet game, try this with a male friend first time you do it if that is easier for you. Start talking about something starting with an A (like Audis, or Astrology) when the conversation dies start talking about something on B (like the Beatles, or Basket ball) this is a great way to keep the conversation running, alternate between asking questions about a topic, and making a statement about a topic..

You can also try the TV exercise: This is where you turn on the TV for about 5seconds, shut it off, and speak loud to yourself - keep whatever conversation that was on the TV going!

There are also improv classes to take in most major cities

Another tip I can give you is to stay updated, read papers, magazines, internet articles, anything that can give you interesting material for a conversation.

Watching stand up can also help you with funny comments or quotes to use in a conversation. I recommend Robert Schimmel, he is hilarious.

Good luck my man!

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Thanks for your help man i really appreciate it but its like... My prob is i have like 0 natural game. i cant be spontaneously funny. Like I can't make a joke on the spot, to like make them laugh. Mines all scripted. The topic thing is good but i mean im only 18, and i dont know if girls will be interested in those kind of topics. They want spontanous stuff, people that make them laugh.

Thx again.

the longer you try the easier it gets.

it really is just a repeating process.

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Yes but i think the starting is the hardest bit !

you dont have to be a comedian....start by teasing them with sarcasm. do you tease your friends? if not, start doing this. if yes, then do the same with girls.