Ok someone tell me how do you game your girlfriend, and should I even feel like I should have to game my girlfriend?

Now that we know how to pick up a woman what do we do to keep her?

How do we keep that spark in the relationship?

How do we keep that romance going we had in the beginning?

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I would like to hear about this as well, but I find that u might think too much about everything u do within a relationship which makes it seem artificial and not natural. I think if ur actually going to get into a relationship with a girl u should only do it because u and her are compatible with your natural self (kind of contradicts the whole gaming thing though). You don’t want to "Force" yourself and the relationship into an unnatural direction in a desperate effort to keep things interesting. I never knew about this gaming stuff before but I was in a 7 year relationship, which was mainly exciting and of course has moments where it becomes routine but not routine enough to make it boring. Overall id say I enjoyed it and that was being pretty much oblivious to the whole art of PUA. Ever since getting into this I’ve started thinking too much when I get involved with a girl i really like which hinders it Authenticity. My advice to u is if ur with a girl and u want a relationship with her ultimately be YOURSELF but in the most natural way possible. There is no harm in tweaking your relationship by using different variations and techniques but not so much that u become a shell of the person you truly are. I am speaking from experience right now, I am currently dating a girl that I really like (the first in a long time) and I have deliberately tried keeping the relationship fresh which worked at first but now she is saying she isn’t as happy as she was in the first few weeks of the relationship. This is down to what I believe was me trying too hard too soon in the relationship. Just let it develop naturally once you’ve met a girl and gotten to know her a bit.

Also to add to this i broke up with this girl today about a few hours ago, now the thing i believ that went wrongs is because i started using the PUA methods to keep her too much. Its fucking bullshit, u can use the techniques to attract girls etc but dont use it to base ur whole relationship on!

relationships are about balance.


you have to balance pua and afc behavior. if you are a pua 24/7 with her, then the relationship is going to fail. same thing if you are an afc 24/7. you need to mix it up.

for example, locke posted a great thread about how it is actually OK to show neediness in a relationship. in pickup you should never show neediness, but things change after you are in a relationship. sometimes showing a little bit of vulnerability in a relationshp is a good thing because it will draw her to you so that she can help you and be a major part of your life.

i completely agree with this!!

i don't think there's really such a thing as 'gaming' your girlfriend.

gaming is all about your best self and trying to be that best social self all day long.

it's not that you're throwing in routines to your gf right? it's just a way of communicating to her and often throwin in negs and making fun of her.

i've told my gf all about game and how i used to pick up the girls

I agree with this, just be your good confident self, thats the person she fell in love with, i don't think game is about changing your personality, its about adapting to make the most of your qualities and knowing how to speak to girls, at the end of the day it's still you, and that is the person she is going to want.

Focusing on being a PUA too much will most probably seem fake eventually and she'll go off you. If you have to try and think about your next move of how to please a girlfriend your in the wrong relationship.

Be spontaneous, do fun stuff together and just enjoy the company. John you won mate, you got the girl Enjoy it!

Good Luck

If you want to keep a girlfriend, wife, fiance', etc., you need to keep her guessing. Keep her on her toes.

Once a girl has you figured out and as learned everything there is to know about you, you're done. The relationship gets stale and her eye starts to wonder.

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Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. - Robert Greene

absolutly right, when i was with my ex we where in a rut where we knew each other inside out, we both started to get bored which in turn ended the relationship

Hmm, i dont think this is always the case. However it's always good to keep the ball rolling.

What usually happens is that both parties starts to expect something fresh from their spouses.. so when they're both expecting it to happen, nothing is getting done.

Sometimes you just gotta surprise her.

I agree so much.

I think we should touch dicks.

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i completely DISAGREE