So, iv been working with this girl for a while, and we flirt alot. So, obviously iv got her interested in me, she actualy ASKED ME out to the movies. So, when i get there, im tottaly new at this picl up stuff. I really just wana get to make out with her, and mabey take her home later. Im thinking of starting of whe i meet her with nice hand shake rutein, and afer that just make conversation. But when it comes time i feel she is comfortable enought to kiss, what should i say to bring a harmless joke or conversation into us making out.

Why the HELL would you give a hand shake to someone who IS interested in you and YOURE interested in them ANDDDDDDDDD youve known them for awhile...

-fuzz

Iv got it maped out, i want to break a little sexual tension, and put our relationship into a place it hasnt been befor. We where only really freinds, but i want to let her know its sexual now. And i know she wont mind, but iv got a way with the handshake to let her know.

And if that isnt a good idea, which it probley isnt, as im new to this, BRAND new, then ppplease tell me a better way.

just stick to cocky/funny stuff if you need any kind of PU at all. The thing is you already know this girl and on top of that she is asking YOU out not the other way around so as long as you don't do something purposely to sabotage the date or will wimp out when its time to make a move and make it awkward you really don't have to do much work here.


All those routines are meant to be used on strangers for the most part as tools to eventually have them hooked so you can more or less be your relaxed self and found interesting, it can come off a little wierd if the person already knows you enough.

Also, movies are a bad idea for a first "date" type situation. You most likely haven't had enough time to build the comfort to take her home (or make out with her).

Mystery suggests doing something casual together. Smoke hookah. Get coffee. Maybe even run an interesting errand. Something where you can talk and flirt and still be preoccupied.

I'd leave the movie till date 3 or so, and once you've already become comfortable kissing eachother, you could use a movie make out to escalate to her coming back to your place.

ahh yes, but the problem is she asked me to go to the movies, it wasnt my idea haha

True. I'm just suggesting to play it cool and use this as an effort to build some comfort instead of a seduction location.

thats why i didn't mention the movie date being lame b/c she set it up so its ok already if the girl wants it. Then again you can move the venue to a hookah bar or something afterwards which will move the frame into your control away from the movie date she set up.

If she asked u out ur in man, don't worry just keep flirting but put a ephasis on what mystery calls the comfort building stage, ask her question like what are her passions, favorite blah blah, this will bring comfort and the answer to these questions can be used later for topics of converstation, date ideas and even sum NLP, when u go to the movies after about 10 min kiss her, There is no perfect time remember this is real life not a movie a lot of guys r still stuck on the idea of the perfect kiss, and also ye movies suck ass date ideas

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