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Teen: As a new person I would say you're gonna scare away new people. You should try to correct us more gently when we make PUA faux pas.
Also, (not bragging) but I may have it the worst of all. I'm almost 23 and never had a gf or K-close. Its mostly because of a K-close anxiety. I have been in situations where its obvious to everyone involved that we should be fooling around but I get what I can only imagine is what people with phobias feel. My heart starts racing, I even visibly shake and no matter how bad I want to move or act I just cannot do a single thing. The conversation even stops sometimes because I can't think about anything else till I stop trying to kiss her. Its awful and epic and has happened 4 or 5 times in my life.
If anyone has any good advice for getting through that please let me know. Sorry if this is high jacking the thread.
i'm only being harsh because i'm fed up with AFC's/new PUA's being cocky and i've learnt the only way to get them to stop...is by doing what i did.
if i were you and i was in that situation...i'd let them know how nervous you are (but don't tell them you've never kissed anyone) because there then more likely to make the move. i've actually faked that once...just to get with a HB8

but obviously told her afterwards that it wasn't true and we've been dating ever since
-teen
thats the dumbest fucking advice i'v ever herd. Tell them your nervous. Are you kidding me?
Think about what you just said, and now think what a girls mind is thinking.
"Whys he nervous around girls"
"Has he never been around a girl?"
"Is he a virgin"
"Has he had any association with a girl"
"I gotta get outta here quick"
If your nervous, you make other people uncomfortable and not want to be around you. Real talk