sup fellas, this is out of curiosity. i just wanted to know why some of u guys were interested in being a PUA besides the fact of meeting chicks.

me personally i had no problem before in meeting women, my method was to basically let the chick make call all the shots. iwas getting laid and had girlfriends but what i didnt like was that i felt like a pushover, i felt like i was the one chasing too much. i started doing this pickup stuff so i could feel more in control with whats goin on and to feel like "the prize". lookin back its funny how i thought showering women with compliments and flowers till they drown was perfectly normal, although it did get me laid once in awhile, i just couldnt help but feel cheesy.

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because he belives in himself, he doesnt need others approval, because he accepts himself, the whole world accepts him

I'm in for SEX! (jks

I'm here so that i have the confidence in every aspect of my life, aswell as having the ability to select women.

You'll feel just as cheesy walking around in the close that these guys wear, so get used to it ^^

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'Oh my, you sir are the Moriarty of self awareness and personnal refelection'

What a title!

Damn straight brother..
Yeah man i feel you. It makes you feel unessesary, i need them to need me. Not want.. Need. Makes sex more interesting i recon aswell. As you said, you get the prize and you enjoy it more.

Just my feelings

peace and junk

Tracer

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CPC

I need to round off the rough edges of my life, especially the very rough on that is my social life and dealing with women. 8 :)

whut kind of lead me to the nice guy path of dating was of course what my mom beat into my brain as a kid, which was treat women like the angels they are. i wish my dad would of said "thats bullshit, only treat them that whay when they earned it". that wouldve saved me alot of trouble.

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because he belives in himself, he doesnt need others approval, because he accepts himself, the whole world accepts him

Thas a Dam good post!
I also never got problems wif ladys ( thats the new generation of PUAs), but Im always travelling and some time I fell no friends...no Girl Friends...No sex...you now its hard to live like that...
So PUA stuffs came at the right time for me!
Like that I can meet a lot of peopple in a short period of time!
Basically thats it!

J.Fox

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"Audaces Fortuna Juvat"
The destin helps the audacious ones

Well, I _did_ have problems with the ladies. I was something like Style: I always thought "If I screw it up with this girl, I will never have sex again," so I would turn one-night-stands into two-year relationships that sucked.

The Game gave me a new direction. It was actually Juggler who solved the One-night-two-year problem (through SOIs, which might be why I'm such an SOI shill), but Style provided me a framework from which my problems with women could be solved.

I'm still working out some kinks, but I'm doing much better than I was.

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Repent now and save 50% on your next divine judgment.
-Monkey's Little Brother, Spud

I want to be a PUA because it seems very stimulating, and can be very rewarding. I'm sick of being a loner sitting at home all day. I want to go out and meet lots of chicks, whilist negging the hotties. It would be a big boost for my self-confidence, to get one area of my life handled in a way, and to provide less incentive to pursure more financially treacherous means of getting sex. Plus, I love women in general and just want to interact with them more instead of just getting out the porn magazine and spanking the monkey all the time. Dare I say more?

At first,I wanted to be a PUA to resolve my issues with confidence,social skills,and to find an answer as to why some guys were practically worshipped by women and others thrown to the side.

Now,my motives have changed.

Now,I wish to find everything there is to be found out about "Inner game".I feel that Inner Game is MANDATORY to master before working on negging/openers/DHV/etc...,and that everything should be laid out as clearly as possible on the subject so that people can develop the unique personality within themselves that will lead to sucess in every aspect of life.

I want to be able to help others rise to a higher level,through working on their own fundamentals.

I managed to convert from a total social loser to somewhat of a cool guy(I have yet to REALLY test my abilities in college,which should be a great success),and hopefully,with my experience in college,my knowledge and experience will be able to inspire everyone else.

Its simple.
I was confident in many areas of my life.
Saw room to improve this particular facet of my life and thought that it would also kill many birds with one stone persay. I think finding your inner game will help every aspect of your life and thats what I am really interested in.

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Do what you love...

I began to study the PUA methodology and theories out of pure interest in women, and psychology in general. Like many others said, I had no problem getting women before stumbling upon "The Game" in Border's Bookstore one day. I was constantly called a 'player' by girls all throughout high school and college. However, though I was extremely successful in my younger years, there was still an element of my game that was lacking.

That element was: Consciousness.

I was doing most of the things that a 'PUA' does while 'out in the field', but I wasn't aware of what exactly I was doing, and as Monkey said, "Why it was working". So there would be times where my game was tight, and I could land the chick I wanted with ease, and others where I would be on the right track, but not strong enough to close properly. After being introduced to the world of PUA's, I was able to locate most (still working on some) of the flaws that were in my game. Being in possession of this wealth of organized knowledge allowed me to become fully conscious of what I was already doing, and what I needed to change in order to become more successful with women.

Short Answer: I'm here for self-improvement and personal development. And to network with people of similar interests from different cultures, backgrounds, etc.

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Amor est Vitae Essentia

I started learning seduction originally because I wanted to react better around women. Wanted to be "THAT GUY". But after awhile I saw how this could apply to other things. Not only am I confident around women now, but at other things too. It's made me a better person in general. I get to meet new people, do new things, and be able to take on more personal challenges. Sure, the original goal was achieved, but I've also gotten so much more from it. I've picked up more than just women, I've also gained confidence in everything else.

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"Life isn’t about how hard you can hit
but how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward." - Sylvester Stallone
“You is a fluid concept”— Hitch

Before i got in the PU society i had fallen in the section of the "nice guy" by and large and although the other parts of my life were flourishing my social life weren't at a good shape. So, after a harsh rejection, i decided that I wanted to succeed in my social life too. My basic problem was that I were too much of a chaser in my afc days, that was creeping girls off. But, when i found out about the society and saw all the potential, which goes far beyond picking up girls- it helps you turn into an Alpha-man in all aspects of life- I decided that i deserved that, that's why the last 2-3 months I am getting familiar with the techniques and building up my inner game. At that point I should also mention that through all this "trip" i developed a strong bond with my wing and best friend who has helped me selfless and supported me. Anyway, it has been some of the most awesome things that i have encountered in my life and the best thing is that i'm still in the beginning of all this

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We haven't sailed the most beautiful sea yet

Nazim Hikmet

The most important reason for getting involved in this has been to have fun. There are many subsequent reasons which have been a result but the ultimate goal for me has always been fun.

Meth, you were blessed to be a natural... You lucky douchebag... Haha

I joined, to be honest, because I have always been good at manipulation... but never with hook-ups. I could convince a girl of anything, except I couldn't convince her to take an interest in me unless I was lucky.

Now, I see my power, value and manipulation skills growing not just when I game girls, but in everyday social interactions. Granted, there is still much to learn, but my current grasp has put me further than I ever thought I could go.

Oh yea, the women are nice too. Learning the art of giving a girl multiple orgasms through one orgasm for me is something that can only be learned through practice. And practice came from learning the game.

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-Love, Charity, and Esteem-