| Ok I thought I would throw out some teasers and some of our original material. We do not abdicate rephrashing other peoples material or interpretting peoples methods in our own way etc. We have developed our own course materials and our own course structures etc.
This is from our "Perfect Alpha Relationship" course
What Id like to talk about today is a concept that I feel essentially makes the difference between a relationship and an alpha relationship.
My gf coined this term being a "social cunt" or as I say having "social cuntitis"
The basic premise is that if u want to maintain a healthy alpha relationship then you need to remove elements such as; boredom, complacency, predicability, repetitiveness etc...
These factors are what quintisentially ruin every decent relationship. Who wants to be with a smoking hot dime if u have the same conversations with her week in and week out... you would eventually because bored of her and her routine.
This is where "social cuntitis" comes into play.
When im alone with my girl Im an "excellent boyfriend" (EB), loving, caring, attentative, considerate and all round diamond. I really cannot be faulted as a partner or as a lover, any ex will tell u, having to let me go was the hardest thing to do in their life so far.. When I get with a girl she will want to marry me, have my babies and stay with my forever.
Anyway, if I was to remain EB constantly she would become complacent of my behaviour, this is AFC type behaviour, having to play the EB suckup etc to get to the action. This is where I do things different and this is why my girl will never grown bored of me. Im a "Social Cunt" to her and to others around me.
Being Alpha male of my group, and alpha wherever I go, Alpha is how I like to be perceived by others. Now congruency being the beauty it is, means that if I were to project an Alpha image of myself to every1, then show really submissive and AFC behaviour infront of my girl, I would effectively ruin any congruency I had developed. Noone would respect or validate what I say because Im saying one thing and doing another.
To counter act this effect I start with "Social Cuntitis", effectively im negging her and doing alot of CnF routines aimed at her, whenever people are around us, it doesnt matter if its one friend or a room full of people, I will exhibit, piss taking and wind up merchant type behaviour, purely directed at my girl.
Ive come out with some quality stuff before
"Im not sure why Im with u, its not even like the sex is that good"
"Well if you dont like it you can call a cab and fuck off"
"So what do u think bout letting me and ******* double end you"
"If u loved me you would give all my mates head wouldnt you?"
"You know how me and ***** swap gf's yeah? If u didnt its tonight we normally trade"
"I cant wait until ur 21, then I can trade you in for a younger model"
"You remember when I said I loved you? I lied to get in ur nickers"
Things like this spurt from my mouth constantly, but its ok because she knows im just being a "social cunt." We built this dynamic into the relationship so that we can have a laugh and a joke but also to counter act the boredom and complacency phases.
I find that by treating her like shit in public and treating her like my queen when we're alone, leads our relationship down a more mutually enjoyable path. She sometimes gives it back in public but generally only met with more insults. The best thing is, when people ask her why she takes this, her response "hes just being a social cunt, dont worry about it."
You need to be careful with this technique as it can backfire if ur partner doesnt understand the premise of it. Or if ur partner gets offended easily. Mine doesnt really care at all, but as soon as I start using "social cuntitis" when we are alone she will call me up on it. The other problem is AFC's using this technique but without the style or flair I use. they just abuse their women to make them feel small so they can have power and control over them.
I use this technique to make sure my girl never grows accustomed to me being an EB but essentially knows I am an EB with Social Cunt qualities.
If I was nice constantly it would lose its appeal, who wants a guy who every day they wake up worships the ground u walk on, after a while this guy is going to come across as really 2 dimensional as the only thing he is concerned with is worshiping his woman.
My girl is a godess and shes made to feel it, but I have to put her thru hell before she can get there and enjoy it.
It goes along with most push-pull, catstring and pleasure/pain theories. But a bit more focused on relationships and remaining Alpha.
I dont believe its possible to be an Alpha Male in a relationship, without having an element of "social cuntitis" about you.
You dont see Alpha Males with their girl, and he all pinching her cheek doing the coochy coo's and always asking if she is ok etc.... Alpha Males have their girl drippin off of them while other women are swooning for them. An Alphas girl knows when to bark back and when to shut up, she knows not to try ever embaress of devalue her man in public and she knows that being with him is an honour !!!
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