ok so theres gunna be a play going on in my highschool that and i feel like this would be the perfect moment to k-close this hb 9 i like. ive been scheming and trying to find ways to get the kiss close in a clever way

THE SETTING: an auditorium

THE SCENARIO: i figure that since its a play theres gunna be a lot of down time seeing how my part may not always be on although im playing a huge role in the play. lucky for me one of the practice dates is on my birthday so im going to try and take advantage of that

MY PLAN: i will try and see if i can isolate her. and do some light flirting/kino. ill try to hug her and lock that hug in for a few seconds and say as i look down at her "so wheres my birthday present?" in a flirtatious/suggestive way. hopefully she'll get my drift and go 4 it.

please critisize and tell me what u would do. thanks

hmm... to be honest i'm not sure. i never like to give the girl any option in the close. by asking "where's my b-day present" you leave it open for her to turn you down. if the mood's not perfect and there's not enough build up then she may not go for it which is obviously not your goal here. there are plenty of good k-closes on this site which could be put to use in this situation.

one i like to use: first get the rapport and comfort built up enough, kino escalate and go in for the hug, then pull away but keep your arms around her and just look at her, if she maintains eye contact for a second or two just go for it. a good test to see if she's ready for the k-close is to brush some hair out of her face with the back of your hand.

good luck man! if all goes well it should be a fantastic birthday!

yea i was reading on another topic i think its titled "BEST KISS CLOSE EVER" that if u have the eye contact you should say "you know if u keep looking at me like that i'm gunna have to kiss you" maybe this would be better?

idk dude. girls aren't initiators when it comes to kissing. you gotta be the one to lay it on her. the hug to kiss thing isnt gonna work.

there's alot of routines you could follow, but whatever you do, u gotta be the one who goes in for it.

I am 18, and got into university last september. The fact that you have to think of ways to grab a kclose is already going to make it harder for this to happen since she is now (in a way) your one-itis and I am betting that you will probably get nervous depsite being confident about a plan. kcloses happen feeling natural, and are a result of a proper escalation - I realize that planning is usually a mental escape plan brought on by approach anxiety to calm nerves; its instant self assurance to have a plan. Realistically, it is not the plan but YOU who will ultimately attract her.

I'm sure we've heard this all before: its not what you say, but how you say it. (and not just the one line, everything else in between)

Simply, it is not a LINE you are looking for, it is how you can make her feel about you in that moment and that is why we play and learn this game.

Oh and it depends on if she already digs you and etc Who knows, I just diarrhea'd what I had in mind.

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I think after some good conversation and kino
i would talk about your birthday and then talk to her about her birthday
and use the "Birthday K-close". This was posted in the "Best Tease Routines" sticky.