O.k so ive seen this girl twice now,each time with other people present so we haven't had sex yet, although don't worry there is sexual tension there I can feel it when she looks at me...Anyhow

So I haven't text her back for 2days now because I don't have the credit and on the first day she asked if we could go out for abit that day,the second she sent me this:

Its national cuddle week so keep this cuddle going.Send it to everyone u care for including me??If you get 5 back youre loved.Happy hugging X

There are a few other texts simular to this one floating about and sometimes I get these others sent to my number...

So what the hell are these has anyone had any experience with these sort of texts before,how do I responed,do I send it back,what the hell can anyone enlighten me.

Thanks...dappah

They're chain text messages that get sent through loads of different people. Popular with 13 year olds. They're quite lame, but each to their own. I'd personally either tease her about it, or text her back about something totally unrelated. Cos its not sent personally to you, dont considder it a shit test.

Yeah, those mean nothing. As Milo said: Tease her with it but only if it fits the situation. If there is general tension, just overrule it. Why would you care about such a chain text message? Funny enough that still people keep sending them...

i love your feed back...

This is what I did, I ignored it then texted her a few days later saying SURPRISE! credited from the text pole

she didn't reply so I sent her another one of them chan texts, still didn't reply...so I guess she is trying to play me at my own non-texting game(non-needy).Anyhow I just loged on to facebook and her status says "why carn't people just say what they want" and I remember her mentioning that she doesn't no what I want to my mate so i'm 99 % sure that was ment for me...like I said I meet her twice obvously made an impact,haven't really spoken to her on the conutionous other a perid of few days and she wants to no were she stands already..The whole approach with her has been played how I play "in-direct game",If she does deside to text me back i'm goner call her on her behavour...lol(teasing) and if we make it past that do you think in anyway I should come clean by giving her an answer that she wants,something like me saying i want to get to no you...man this girl needs to be put straight,she seams like she needs to be re-sured with me telling her what I want from her.What do you guys think???

Thanks... dappah

Have you kissed her yet? If so you should set up a day 2 as soon as you next chat to her. Sometimes girls get kind of annoyed if you over do the ignoring texts thing. This isn't so much cos you're being rude, but rather cos it feels like the two of you arent really moving anywhere or escalating. From 1st meeting to sex you should always be making it gradually more intense and exciting for her. Text game can slow this down sometimes.

If you haven't kissed her yet invite her on a night out with your friends and her friends. This isolate, built rapport and k-close. Once this is done you can proceed to day 2 above. Or even take her home if it seems possible.

When you do the day 2 try to avoid the 'where is this going?' conversation, just pour on the comfort and rapport, get her trust, get her lost in the moment. If you can come across as someone whose quite alouf, and maybe a bit of a player (don't talk about other girls tho obviously), but who genuinely cares about getting to knw her, usually she will not ask questions and will be happy to have sex, without too much resistance.

Good luck man.

I have kissed her,not enough to get her hot and horney but from the way it was done, enough to build some tension


I'm thinking that your right, definitely need to set up another day with this one, I still wouldn't say that it's gone dead I now think like you said she is just anoyed,that she wanted 2 do something one day and it took me a few days to get back to her and when i did, it was completely besides the point..lol


I'm not going to bring up anything like " were is this going,conversation" , i'm goner carrying on with my game as normal and generally carry on doing what i've been doing must been having some effect if she's righting about me on her facebook status !??!


As soon as I get her face to face i'm goner be looking to break reppor with her on any of her ball shit, this girl needs to be explaining her behavour to me,she obvously needs to get something of her chest,so I can help with that, I might try and piss her of so she flips out at me and starts one of them talks,I believe that they make the girl feel closer to you even if I don't contribute much to the convo...

Although if our night gets of to a great start and she anit still got a chip on her shoulder I wont be doing any of this.... Thats if she does get back to me i'm not one to chase ( she aint worth that SPAM and I carn't see that I done anything rong to do so)


Anyhow, If I do get a nother day with her I will post how it went

Thanks...dappah