Alrights lemme introduce myself really quick

imma 17 year old male thats new to these forums and i already have some game developed but like many others i'd like to step it up a knotch and try to get over some of the humps that have plagued me at times. so for my first questions id like to ask you guys for advise...........

i recently met this girl at work and i've been talking with her when i see her come into the coffee shop for the past month and til now its always been casual but i know shes interested just by her body language and other obvious factors. so to get the question i recently messaged her on myspace so see if she wanted to see a movie on friday and she never replied but she did read the message so its not like she was never aware of it. so im wondering what would be a good next move. i was contemplating about sending her a message tomorrow talking about how good the movie was and just saying something to make her feel like she missed out on it, and if she replies to that by saying "whod you go with?" i would tell her that i went with some girls i knew.

please help me out with any tips possible or suggestions

thanks

Try anything. Don't seem too desperate though, u don't "need" her.
Just learn from whatever you choose to say.

Punish bad behaviour. That is what I always do. No going to the movie with you is bad behaviour. Thus I would punish her in one of two ways:

1) Tell her the movie was good and that the friend you went with cooked you dinner afterwards. (she will assume it is a girl friend because of the cooking, but you can try anything similar - don't be obvious about making her jealous.
2) Be distant on your next meeting.

Please note, I don't use punish in a harsh sense but it is just a word that suits the purpose. You might prefer to call it conditioning or modeling (or though all are linked anyway).

Another quick note - a movie is a boring date. Girls get asked out to dinner, to the movies, for a coffee a whole bunch. A movie is boring and doesn't allow you to run game, since most game is conversational based. For your first dates you want to do something original (to her) and fun.

Don't let it bug you that she didn't come along this time, just have a better plan ready next time. Oh, and if your new to the game make sure you do a lot of reading and then a LOT of practice.

thanks alot for the tips guys, ill surely read up on the forums and practice as much as possible. and next time ill avoid the movie and go for something where i can spark more conversation.

ill keep you guys posted on this girl and the others