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NLP is a tool used by the best psychologists and hypnotists in our world today.
It's helped people stop smoking, heal from mental diseases, and much more.
The way this happens is when the practitioner uses it on his client.
He must go through three steps of Hypnosis:
1. Learn the client's preferred sense.
2. Make client believe he is controlling the situation with facts like the Practitioner being in the Client's reality.
3. Slowly and unnoticeably bring client into practitioner's reality.

During this process, several techniques are used.
Some of which are:
- Command Tones
- Anchoring
- Swapping constructive and remembered

To do all this, the client must be willing. To be willing, the client must be comfortable. It is your job to make the client comfortable.
You can give him comfort by this one word: Trust.
Trust can be built in many ways, some of which are:
- Appearing stupider than he is, making him feel no threat from you.
- Showing him your trustworthiness through your ACTIONS.

The tool most practitioners use is relaxing the client through hidden hypnosis. Use small command tones and make the client get into a hypnotic state.

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Applying NLP to Pick Up.
I only use NLP when I've isolated a girl and I feel I can completely trust her. I tell her "I'm going to show you something you've never even imagined."
She usually thinks I'm being cocky/funny but once I show her my serious yet comforting face, she understands.
I tell her "Now I want you to close your eyes and take very deep and slow breaths. (Pause) Very good. (Pause) Don't control it, just relax and observe how relaxed you become. (Pause) Alright? Good, now I need you to do something. (Pause) *Use routine*"

After the routine, she and I are both in a very emotional and surreal state. We do what we gotta do and enjoy the rest of the day/night.

BE AWARE: NLP is NOT to be used solely for "hit and runs". It WILL affect your emotions towards your client/target and you WILL become just as attached as she is to you.

Peace, love, success
<33 Grape

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You've got the first part right, but telling someone to close their eyes, relax and notice how relaxed they are isn't NLP. Its not exactly hypnosis. I've been hypnotized by real professional hypnotists, and I've done the do it yourself hypnosis at home audio tapes. Hypnosis is a long deep process which requires a lot more than just a script. And your script isn't much of a script. Its also not an NLP pattern. I don't know that much about NLP, but I do know thats not it.

To successfully do NLP I understand that first you need rapport, you can establish rapport by mimicking body language, voice tone, speaking the way they speak. If they speak like a valley girl, like totally, then so should you and etc.. You know when you've established rapport because their face fills with more color than previous. If your not sure you subtly stop mirroring them completely and change your body language slightly and see if they mirror you.

Then you change their emotional state by saying something like "I'm having some weird day." When they ask about it you say "Can you remember a day when you met someone that you weren't attracted to at first, but as the day went on you found yourself more and more attracted to that person? Imagine that and describe that feeling to me so I know we're on the same page."
Every time they say, or you say the word attracted touch your chest. That is an anchor for attraction. I'm sure this isn't a very good script, but like I said I don't know NLP. I just have a general idea, and I know that my script is closer to NLP than yours.

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