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sometimes the attention goes mostly to the guy who cant dance at all but thinks fuck it and dances like a complete goof, mocking himself - rather than the urban street dancer. it shows more confidence than him, even if its not as much skill
Yeah that sometimes works...if the people you're trying to impress can't dance.
If they can dance, your suckiness will only be cute for about 5 minutes before it starts lowering your value. On the other hand, if you actually have some basic dance skills under your belt, then girls will appreciate and be able to laugh WITH YOU as you try and struggle through new moves.
Girls don't expect you to be a good dancer, they just want to see that you are competent enough that they can dance with you and it not be awkward.