i've been push-pulling this girl alot lately. and today she used another guy against me building him up to me. saying he was funny and fun to be with. but completely out of the blue and while i was kind of negging her. should this be taken as an ioi or do you think she was trying to push me away. keep in mind that she initiated the conversation not me and i have been purposefully giving her few ioi's myself as part of my game

It's a shit test. Take the arguement away and say yeah he's cool. Don't qualify yourself whatever you do.

use an opener on the guy and get on with him and get him to like you (in a friendly way not gay)in front of her and she will see how cool you are with all people and like you more

no she knows how cool i am. not to be arrogant but im like one of the coolest people she knows socially. im amog of the freshmen at our college. its just that i just started pua stuff recently and i've realized that what i once thought was decent game is horrible. i have problems in that I make most girls a friend and nothing more.

You have the comfort stage down then! just phase shift. Throw a sexual comment in every once in a while it doesn't even have to be directed at her

I like the long game because hey . . . it's fun and the build up is incredible. But this "long game" works because both of you know deep inside that coming together is inevitable. You've got to spark that crazy sexual interest right away. otherwise, you're just heading down the wrong street.

Don't plan on push pulling this one for the rest of the semester. You're not living in some vacuum with this girl. You have to believe that there are plenty guys out there who are taking risks and making sexual advances. So if you want a piece, you've got to step it up.

One effective pull is all you need but I'm willing to bet you haven't really pulled yet. Perhaps you push pulled through compliments and negs but this is only good for opening.

When pulling now, as Gander wrote, you've got to make this sexual with clear intent. So after some chit chat you go something like:

gb: "Wait a sec . . .Ooh, you're looking hot today . . .(but don't end here) Oh, I'd love to bite your neck.
hb: What?!?
gb: Woh woh . . just because I'd love to bite your neck doesn't mean I'll do it . . at least not right away. We'll go on a date first. Not sure what kinda guy you think I am . .
hb: blah blah blah.
gb: Clearly you don't know me. I'm going to call you up, take you to the movies, then I'll give you a kiss on the cheek, shake hands. . . That's all I ever do on my first dates. I'm a gentleman.
hb: blah blah . .
gb: So on the third date, we'll have sex. I don't want you to tell me any different and on this I won't budge. Fast girls are a huge turn off for me.

Now skip off to another topic and when saying good bye. you pull her in for a hug and a kiss on the cheek. If you sense some resistance, motion to her as if you're going to tell her a big secret. Girls LOVE secrets. Then you whisper in her ear:

gb: So I'll consider this our first date.(Big kiss on her cheek) I'll call you soon for our 2nd date.

Then just walk the fuck away.

ajajaja, dats cool dude