Hi guys!

I was looking for a similar topic, but I couldn't find one.

This happened probably to everyone. You go out with your GF / date to a club and if she's HB7 or higher she will definitely get approached by at least one guy during the night. If she's HB9 or 10, you will probably spend half of your time dealing with guys approaching her. Unless you look like a guy who'd even beat the hell out of Chuck Norris, you will find yourself in these situations.

I'm personally a small guy and I'd like to meet that guy who'd say he's afraid of me hehe. So I deal with these situations a lot.

Till now, I was always playing totally cool because anything else would be DLV. And that worked good enough.

But I think you can actually take advantage of the situation and DHV to your GF / date.

I was searching the net for some routines, but I couldn't find anything. :/

My idea is to somehow 'manipulate' the guys that approach her when we are in a club together. For example, to drag this guy a little bit from her and tell him he is totally going to blew his chances with her if he tries to pick her up using whatever he was doing. I'll tell him I'm her best friend and she totally hates when guys approach her that way.

And then I'll tell him how he should approach her the right way. I'd tell him something that is totally opposite of what he was intending to do and what will probably be very funny for her. That way he will have to act like somebody he isn't and that will probably be very hard for him and will end up looking funny to her.

She'll probably be wondering what the hell I'm doing. And when the guy tries to approach her again (using the stuff I told him) I'll smile at her behind his back and put two thumbs up and then leave.

I'll return in several minutes and if the guy is still there, I'll drag him again from her and tell him that he's again doing something wrong and he will totally blew his chances. Then I'll tell him that I think he seems like a nice guy and I'll talk to her if she likes him. And I'll take his number and tell him I'll set him up a date with her. But that he must leave now or he will totally ruin everything.

What do you guys think about this? This is what first came up to my mind as a way to DHV in situations where some guy wants to pick up your GF and you are there.

Do you know some other topics on this forum?

Or if you now some other techniques for these situations, please post here. Or develop something new from my idea.

Thanks guys, I think we could figure out different routines together.

Take care,

Davor.

I usually greet the guy like a long lost friend. Heeeeey! How are you man???? Great! Having a good time tonight? So what people are you here with? Those guys, man you gotta introduce me to them. Hey let me introduce you to my friends... Bla bla bla. Just out bullshit him. Talk his ears off. You keep him off you gf and he will feel stupid trying anything after you being so friendly to him!

Man all my posts seem to include Tim's methods today but he said an easy way is to just tell ur girl "who is this creepy guy?"

it works great cus everything he does now will look creepy to the girl.
I actually used this last week when I was working with my girl at K-fest, and this guy kept on comin to talk to her. She was very talkative towards him, so I just ask her who was that creepy guy?. Next time he came back, he tried to talk to her again while orderin yogurt, she basically ignored him without makin any eye contact and gave him the order. completely "choded" him out

call him a creep, best thing, i agree

also : roll you eyes... like "girl code" for weird creep!

totally ignore the guy:
- just move in between with your back to the guy
- or move her in between with her back to the guy

when he tries to cut in, with smart jokes etc, just ignore! ignore! and do some high octane routine on her so she doesnt get distracted easily

Yeah, Ezoghoul had a very good method.

You other guys didn't quite understand me, my goal is not to get rid of the guy as quickly as possible.

In stead I want to DHV in that situation by manipulating the guys who approach my GF, ie. to show my GF I'm capable of getting rid of the guys who approach her not by ignoring or forcing away, but on a very cool and creative way in which those guys end up looking with much lower value than me. I'm showing to her that I have a strong social intuition and confidence to get rid of the guys on my own manipulative way.

That's why Ezoghoul's method is great.

C'mon guys, I think you can be more creative than this.

obviously just make sure you introduce her/let him know thats your gf, make sure you do it right in front of her too (thats the most important part). haha jk, i always laugh a lil on the inside when guys do this.

well idk youre lifestyle, but something to dhv in this sutuation with in my days as a d dealer, i would just offer to sell him some weed/pills. if he says yes you just demonstrated higher value, if not you just made him look broke.

another lil twist i used to use with this, is if he's wearing a hat or nice watch, offer to buy it from him for x amount of money (usually works best if you offer more than its worth). and right there you just DHV'd. also if you're like "nice hat mayne, but youre not really wearin it right. i know how ta rock a hat like that, how much do u want for it?" that usually works nicely cuz even if he says no, you just demonstrated higher value anyway

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Hey man, glad my approach helped you. Sorry I couldnt give you any more "routine-like" advice but I have more and more realized that in the case of AMOGs you have to be very flexible. You have to deal with anything they throw at you since the alpha male duels go very fast and no one is the same as the other.
Just maintain the frame that he is there just to be nice and if he tries anything you are gonna show him a good time on your terms.
Tell him that the girl is crazy or neg her in front of him and nod knowingly to him. He will have to agree (supports your game and admits you as the leader) or if he disagrees he becomes the one that sucks up to women (the loveable loser and you are still the one with the stronger frame).

Greet him with "Hey bro I'm Psych, so you here with a girl or out on the prowl tonight?"

Then give him quick tips on how to approach right getting your girl to agree with you. You DHV to the girl by having social intuition, showing your not a prowl guy in comparison to him, and also teaching another guy shows your value.

This is a way to DHV in the situation but honestly most times the best thing to do is just to ignore, or that creepy line is money. This also implies that the guy is willing to greet you and isn't ignoring you.

This is all pretty good exept ignoreing him cause that will depend on what the girls does. If your ingoring him and the girl isnt way DLV

How about something simple like... start off like he's a friend you know, then finish with "so, you like my girlfriend eh?"

something like,

"Heyyy Bro wutchu up to? *talk about the party a bit....* "So, you like my girlfriend huh?"

Instead of taking him off to the side you could do it right in front of her and embarress the shit out of him and get a laugh from her


When he walks up and lays some dumb ass line "hey baby what's up?"
Just flat out say " oh my god dude you are doing it so wrong. Your approach is all wrong, your never going to get a girl that way. obviously your inexperienced. I'll have to show you sometime but right now I'm entertaining my lady friend."

It will completely disarm him and leave him in a shock and of course it will be hilarious.

yeah id be ready to scrap if you use this lol

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