here it is guys...

been gaming this girl i've like for months, finally f-closed her the other wk, while she was still with her bf....

the morning after and throughout the day, she was texting me how much she enjoyed the night amongst how we feel for each other and that she was gonna have the talk with her bf, where he turns it round on her telling her she never showed him any emotion and never gave it ago, so she decides to give it ago... the other day her bf calls it off!!!

great rite???? no!! quite the opposite, although she chose to give it ago, we was still talking about how much we want eah other and to fuck each other.. now it's had an opposite effect, she's distanced herself from me since it's happened, wat i do know is that she is feeling down and low about her self from messaged the bf sent her... i know she lacks alot of confidence from growing up and past bf's... but i dnt know wat to do???

thanks for taking the time to read this guy and hope u can help, any advice greatly appreciated!!

Personally, i'd walk away but that's just me haha.

Seriously though i don't think you need to concern yourself with HER personal issues too much...not like you forced her to do anything...You're both adults.

Just let her know the situ is unfortunate and that you're there for her (NOTE DO NOT SAY ANYTHING ABOUT SHOULDERS TO CRY ON BLAH BLAH)

Just let her know she can talk to you but draw the line, that way you don't fall into the hole covered with leaves that is the friend zone...but i doubt that'll happen now that you nailed it anyway.

Gl with it.

Man I say go be a friend but watch it dont let it get you in the ljbf catagory tho..She is in need of a shoulder to cry on and sence you 2 have had something if you showed her that there is more to you then just sex she will fall for you more.But if your not into being with her just be the friend for now...

First mistake: messing with a girl in a relationship. Yes, it's not completely your fault because she obviously didn't want to be with him, but come on. Have some respect for your fellows. If this guy was good enough at one point to get her like you did, respect that. Don't mess with girls who have boyfriends. Besides that, I say walk away. You never want to be in a relationship that's started like that. Walk away now, and fast. Better luck next time.

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