Hey guys,

Been meeting and talking to a few people from facebook etc.
Just really wanted to know how to stand out from a crowd.

Been chatting to a few girls that are having 00's of guys adding them a day, and on Msn they may have like 30 people chatting at a tie.

How do you stand out, so you are not just having boring small talk and getting one word answers from the girl?

Thanks

Andy

if a girl gives me a one word answer i move on. Today i was hitting on this girl and asked her, "what do you do around here", she said "work". and i just walked away. there is no need to waste your time on girls who don't want to have a coversation.

My opinion--->

I dont really use facebook/myspace/dating websites etc to Sarge or meet girls... why?

In my opinion its all Bull... Anyone can stick a photo up of anyone, or choose the ones that make them look all that and is oftern years old when thay paid £300 for a make-over... in fact now they arent as toned, have changed hair styles or just look worse for wear after 3000 cigarettes.

It takes what 0.5 seconds to sit on "Hot Or Not" and click yes on each profile... if you click 1000 profiles then you'll get a acceptance from probably 20% unless your hot yourself it will be significantly more... Don't be suprised to learn that girls have competitions with each other at home many 5+ guys they can get added. It's a joke! not a game which I prefer to play...

Half the girls on there probably hit yes because if they have 00's of guy friends then it Social Proofs them in the Facebook community... I say forget cyber sarging, its a waste of time, get out there meet people in person and work your magic, be a person not a robot.

Facebook is Lazy simple as, you cant get accross your personality or your character in a email... --- "lol" for example in person is hundreds of different syles of laugh, different facial expressions, different sounds, on a message its 3 key presses that take a nanosecond to press.

The game is all about Social Dynamics and being able to talk to girls. If you can use MM or just open a set then why bother with Facebook, more than likeely your going straight in at C phase when you meet them, so if anything it makes life harder.... I'd say forget facebook for that, use it for its intended purpose, just to keep incontact with old friends and add new ones as you go along.

Only my opinion...

Either you could try to use open.ended Qs, so they must use more than one word. Be sure to make it so you have to use a sentance in order to answer it^^.

I often say "Sorry, might be a bit slow.. got a few conversations over here..". Then stick with it. If you give her a respone 0.4s after her, she'll get bored to death. Take it slow.

And yeah, if they can't chat online properly.... fuck 'em. (not in that way, lol)