WE TALK ABOUT HOW THERE ARE NO BITHCES, JUST BITCH SHIELDS BUT WHAT ABOUT BAD MOODS????


I tried sarging a gorgeous waitress at a club last night and she wasn't having it.

I could tell she was in a bad mood because she wasn't smiling at all, (almost frowning) but here is how I crashed and burned



Me:(jokingly)I think you would look good with a smile on your face
Her: Yeah (and looks at me with the "sure thing buddy"expression)

That threw me off so the conversation tanked hard

Me:You look tired, work gettin to you?
Her:Yeah
Me: What's your name?
Her: (she had to repeat it three times because it was so loud)Summer
Me:Do you work here every wednesday?
Her:No
Me:Are your answers always so long?
Her:Hah
Me: Nice talking to you


Please help

her HAH to your neg should have given you the heads up. Remember attraction is not a choice. AGAIN ATTRACTION IS NOT A CHOICE! Her laughing sparked a little tinny bit of attraction in oyu and you should have run game on her right there and now. sounds like you tried qualification or comfort to early.... Remeber she gets approached alot so you gotta try to be diff. right after the neg you should have went with maybe a better opener than you did like the should i get a size bigger or smaller for my friend blah blah. this way she can give you her opion then you could have DHV by telling a story on how its important her answer because your friends depend on you to make their birthday then tell a story on how you made your friend's lame birthday by giving her the best gift she siad she ever gotten etc. Get what Im saying? sounds like you could have pulled her if you did continue to run game on her.

This is good advice frekinrican! I agree that you should have stacked something very quickly. I have sarged and closed several hired guns. One of the last things they want to talk about is work. How much do you like talking about your job?

The best thing you can do is bring them into your world with stacking stuff and your DHV story telling abilities. You have to take her out of her work mindset.

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