it was so strange last night, i met up with my friends (3 women) and had supper. it all went well and i had myself a great time. Afterwards we went to watch a movie, upon doing so they dared me to approach a random women which i did. i number closed and moved on. the strange thing is, after the movie they all went home and i was on the way to the club. i was meant to meet up with some friends but they couldn’t come because of transport problems... I’ve never felt so insecure in a club. its as if i work better with people i know around me! is there a way to successfully over come this?
i know my material but i get so nervous without people i know around me!!! ahhhhhhh

Mystery said in his book that a PUA should be able to sarge in clubs alone, but I don't agree with him. I would never go out without my friends, cause I think it's really lame to go out alone. Just my 2 cents.

You look like a dork at a club alone. I'm able to schmooze with most people and gain allies, but having a trusty wingman is a big failsafe. This is just my feeling on clubs and when I see people alone in clubs. Unless you're a REALLY agile person socially, it's hard to not look pathetic.

I remember reading about a PUA that goes to clubs by himself because it forces him to approach so he doesnt look like a loner.

You do better with your friends b/c they provide some social value, and u know ur under pressure when there watching.
if you WANT to sarge alone, then i guess you just need to do it over and over, practice makes perfect.

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You can go out alone in clubs without appearing to be a dork all u have to do is to relieaze that no knows that u are there alone unless u tell them that u are all u need to do is make new friends as u go along at all clubs u are at and make them believe that u know everyone in the club even if u have never been there before. i go alone many times and i have never failed at picking someone up. i talk and approach everyone as if i know them before and it works like a charm since they admire confidence and boldness

actually here is something that you can use in a situation where you are sarging alone.

Pretend that you are talking on your cell phone ( my cell phone is a great wing man) with a friend and make sure that your target notices. When end the pretend phone call, approach the set and say something like ' i just got of the phone with a buddy i am meeting up with later tonight, we were having a debate on ______ and need a females oppinion...

she wont care that you are alone. A lot of people go to clubs alone to meet people, its no big deal.