hi guys, new here and need help!!
met a girl at this club, and continued to meet up with her.
now shes out of the country but told me before she left that she'll be back in june.
we only met up twice and both times at a club, not that we got much dancing done....
im 20 and shes 24 , and all thats left is from me to actually have sex with her, we got pretty far in the club but her damn friend thats always with her is a liability! the girl i was with always needing to go and check up on her every couple hours or so

my question is, do i call her in june? she did show alot of interest and did say she'll be back in london. and any tips on gettign rid of her friend? i tried getting a friend to ' occupy' her but it didnt work out for some reason, he said she was too boring and quiet

any help is greatly appreciated

thanks for reading

Definitely call or text her in June. Neutral dates are the most wicked thing on earth. By asking her to tag along you're reinforcing the whole "push-pull" element to a relationship. She will have no idea where she stands with you (which is a good thing) plus you will be in control.

Regarding the friend, if you ever bump into her with your chick be pleasent. Get her to like you and flirt around a bit. Trust me there isn't anything more powerful than her friends.

So, basically call her but be dominant, don't ignore the menacing friend but be pleasantly flirtatious with her. Then when you're alone with your girl play all you're usual tricks such as your kino, dhv stories and (last but not least) hint at competition to keep her on her toes. I'm sure it ell work.

Hope that helps mate.

thanks mate good advice. will definetly take it

i have another problem i just thought of

when i do call her, what do i say that wont come of desperate? i mean i dont want her to think shes the only girl ive been with since the last time i saw her which was around 2 months ago. i dnt want her to get the wrong idea thinking i'm really into her and have been thinking of her all this time

thanks for any help

What ya need to do is just make it completely clear that you're not asking her out. If you've already gotten with her I would play it slow at first therefore really go do something neutral. Go for Coffee, say you need female help buying someone a present or just go do something you like and get her to tag along.

Just keep it really short and to the point. So basically all you wanna say is: "I wanna go do this tomorrow, you seemed like a really cool person so come along with me". If she says great, tell her where to meet you (be pleasent) and then tell her you have to dash and go do something. All you need to do is dominate while being pleasant at the same time. If you prefer texting that's fine too.

Btw, there's no need to worry about this girl at all. You should regard this situation as fun. There are plenty more girls out there and if you have the ability to get with a chick infront of here friend then you'll be fine. That's why you shouldn't get too caught up on only this one and just go out there and have a laugh.

Good luck mate.

thanks once again