How do you respond when you ask a girl to hang out and she responds with "maybe! we'll see... i might be busy"

Ive used "alright some other week then" but that got me nothing. Suggestions?

a girl said that to me ones before, and I said like: "ok, then do wathever you want" like pretending that I wasn't interested and she start to callme by cute names and then she said to me something like: "ok, this Xday its good for me "

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sorry my english

Shes just not that into you. Don't really know how else to put it.

If you see her again play the game and focus on IODs and Negs and definitly 100% demonstrate higher value and have her see you talking to other chicks and hanging with your boys having a great time.

With regards to a phone reply to htat I dunno I would just prob delete her number. I can't really think of a great reply that will all of a sudden increase her 49% interest level in you above the 50% interest level that you will need to get a date with her.

Rmember, just beucase a chick gave your her number does NOT mean 100% that she wants to go on a date with you. I'm approx 75% on getting a date or plan from a number. TBH I number closed tonight which i'm kinda upset about and if i ever get 30 posts I can put it down in the forums haha but anyways number close doesn't always mean date at least thats been my experience maybe other people have higher %ages but I doubt anyone has 100% but who knows I'm new here so ...

Thanks for your reply man.

Normally I would totally agree. But after the number close this girl texts me everyday. Even after the flake I get a text "good morning"

I dont know if I should play cocky/funny, cold or just none responsive.

Well, do a little of both. Play it C&F, act a little aloof. Definatly let her see you talkig to other girls and having a good time. Make sure that you watch out for her shit tests!! If she is at all intrested in you, even a little, shes going to throw in some tests. Make sure you reconigize them and dont give in. Also make sure she sees that her attitude has no effect on yours. A attitude like "there are 100 women out there just like her, and 1000 that are better" (which is true btw)

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I agree with Floods7.

Based on your last post, she is interested but insists on playing games to keep you guessing and unsure...in other words, she is staying in control. Give her a taste of her own medicine.

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Give her a taste of her own medicine.

How so? She does play games but always shows IOIs, ie, writing on my facebook wall etc.

Give her a taste of her own medicine.

How so? She does play games but always shows IOIs, ie, writing on my facebook wall etc.

I plan to ignore her for a couple of days, show some interest and ignore once again. I actually dont have time for dealing with peoples shit, so I am probably just going to ignore.

that's one way to do it, i'll PM you.

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Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. - Robert Greene

make sure your not mistaking her feelings for you. Make sure that her IOI's are indeed IOI's, and not just being friendly. I know a girl who is very touchy and sexual towards all guys. Some guys think "o man.. SHE IS INTO ME" but that is just her way of communication. So make sure she knows your intrested in her. Obviously dont go up and say it to her, but use some kino and see how she responds to it.

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Thanks for all the info guys. I havent meen sarging much lately, but today one week later she messages me on msn the second I go on. I am a bit distant.

She asks

HER "So what are you doing this weekend"
ME "Oh tonight my friend is having a gig so I am probably going to check that out. What about you? Girly flick night?
Her "Lol maybe"
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Me: "Anyways I have to get going."
Her " Bye nerd"
Her "Dont go playing too much "billiards"
Her:


My problem is I tend to idolize girls way too much.

Never say, "alright some other week then"
Thats like putting a leash on yourself and handing her the end.
You could have said something like, "i dont accept maybe's, thats cool though, ill just phone Jenn (Or any girl name!). Have fun "maybe being busy""
And leave it like that

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Thats good. Maybe is like a slap on the face.

If you plan to ask her out again and she says maybe or im busy, would it be wrong to say " you know i wont be asking again"

Yeah that would probably work pretty good.
Tell her she is lucky you are giving her a second opportunity, but make sure you do it playfully.

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