I've been going on about how I live with these gorgeous roommates. I just had to make a B-line from the kitchen to my bedroom and write this because I'm nervous to my new surroundings.

My roommates are HB 7, 8, 9. When around them I avoid them or they avoid me. I am too nervous to talk to them for fear of rejection.

Pointers anyone. I don't intend to pick these girls up but I would like to seem cool to them.

Help?

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"Don't confuse me with facts, I already have my mind made up!"

Just chill. You are kind of making a living situation uncomfortable by avoiding. Start with the best opener ever "hi." Whether you intend to pick them up or not, its an essential you at least communicate with them occasionally. Personally if it were me I would be chattin with them all the time but i'm not easily intimidated and am very social.

Have fun.

Joker

How can I turn this around they have multiplied, as we speak there are now 5 girls getting drunk downstairs. I went down stairs and said to one of the girls "How's it going?" she said "good" that was it. I stayed around long enough to boil water for my tea. I know if I had an acoustic guitar here I'd be conned into singing. Then i'd be comfortable. After you get a party singing "Asshole" you become a hit.

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"Don't confuse me with facts, I already have my mind made up!"

Well do you know any great magic tricks, card games, etc?

lol so drive home and get your guitar..

seriously though, you are making it worst off by not talking to them, joker's right..you exist..they exist..talk!!! say hey in the morning when you see them..how's the hangover kinda thing..

doesnt really matter..just talk, its really important to bond with roomates..remember, if you're nt gna game them, you can game their friends which are usually equally hot good impression on roomate=dhv for her friends..

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They can put in a good word for you, so long as they don't know your learning to be a Pickup Artist.

haha yeah watch your back when you're browsing online so they dont creep up on you one day randomly and see you're on this site

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That'd be a shitty night. I have a good rapport with the roommate my age, the others are like 5 years younger than me.

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"Don't confuse me with facts, I already have my mind made up!"

I tell girls all the time im a pick up artist. It depends on the situation and the vibe your getting. say it as a matter o fact tone like it does not bother you and girls eat up the confidence, they also know you dont want to get committed.

as for the situation...i would have a field day. DUDE you live only once, who cares! talk to them....live in the moment, dont think. Start a conversation, tease them on what they are wearing. set it up so they have to bump into you and neg them. You got this, dont worry so much.

~ Mystic

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"The greatest mistake you can make in life is to be continually fearing you will make one."

so i've been trying to break the ice and the tension. Everytime i ask a question i get an answer like: :"yep", "nope" or "oh yeah". maybe they sense my nervousness. Sometimes i just want to ask "do you hate me"

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"Don't confuse me with facts, I already have my mind made up!"

dont ask questions, relate with them...run some dhv stories on them. Talk to them as if you knew them your entire life and your great friends.

~ Mystic

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"The greatest mistake you can make in life is to be continually fearing you will make one."

dude.
women are people too. We all get nervous, we all have our flaws.
What you must realize is that they are just as vulnerable as a B4. If you talk to them in ways that are learned through this site, then you don't necessarily have to pick them up...remember the choice to make them want to go with you is completely in your power.

Just talk to them...
When they wake up from a big party,
throw a "So that party was bumping last night, right?" and if you didn't go to it..."Wow, that party was so loud I could hear it over here.".

Get what I'm saying...you could even qualify them with stuff like:

"So, someone's looking extremely satisfied this morning...You find a boyfriend last night?"

Just be open to talk man...don't put the pussy on a pedestal

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John C.

Just to add, remember two ways to lead a convo: you can either as questions, or make statements that make her as YOU questions.