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 Post subject: Need Help With Bank Girl
PostPosted: Thu May 01, 2008 12:14 am 
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Sorry if this is in the wrong place but it's kind of urgent.

So I met this girl at the bank like two days ago and when I first saw her I was like "Oh she's OK" (looks-wise) but after we started talking I became rreeaalllyy attracted to her. It's been two days now and I've still been thinking about her. Anyway I was thinking of going back to ask her out and saying something like "Hey it's really weird because last time we had a cool conversation and I haven't been able to get you out of my head since then" and then maybe ask her out on a date. Problem is though is that I'm 18 and she looked like she was 24 or so and I'm not sure if she would be cool with that. Also, I'm thinking maybe I was just surprised by her cool and friendliness because a lot of the people I talk to just seem really cold and distant and not genuine but this girl really seemed like a fun laid back person because she was laughing with me about stuff that most people when I tell them just act like "whatever". I'm afraid that she might have just been a really good employee.

Also, I'm kind of nervous about what I would do if I was to walk in there and there were other people in line or people waiting to be helped.


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PostPosted: Thu May 01, 2008 12:46 am 
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you sir, seem a little to into her at this point
i wouldn't say needy but close
I'll say that you should really get to know her better and spend time with her alone, beside talking to her at work
like spending time walking at the park or meeting up at Starbuck
from there on it'll be more natural and appropriate to ask her out
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PostPosted: Thu May 01, 2008 12:53 am 
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Yeah the reason you like is probly something like what you said above. (But im not going to go into that)

Dont worry about man, i chatted up and asked out a girl at a supermarket checkout with a bunch of people watching (i dont just mean they were there, all of them watching me) who cares if they're waiting, its not them thats important. The convo only has to be brief.

Now forget all that stuff you was gonna say, thats no good.
Just go in there and talk as you normally would and make her laugh if you can.

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