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| shazzbott | PostPosted: Thu Apr 24, 2008 8:15 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Thu Sep 06, 2007 9:38 am Posts: 53 | | Hey guys, little confused on whats going on in this situation, kinda a long read but not to bad. Read it -Thanks
Ok so i have this hb in my class who I talked to a few times and decided to go for her. That weekend she came out with to a college party and stayed for a while things went well... i just wanted to see where things would go. The next night she called me and wanted to come over and pregame before we went out so i told her ok and then we went out to a party and really hit things off.
We played beer pong ( kino the whole game ), and then she went outside to call her friends and meet up with them. I went outside and started talking to her so she sits on my lap and starts really flirting with me and asks me when i am going to take her out on a date. She was telling me that she did not want to be a hook up girl but more of a date-able girl. she had to go catch her friends so she left and about 45 mins later i got a call from her telling me that she was coming back to the party ( so im thinking that she is really into me ). We bail and go back to my place.
She goes to my room and lays on my bed because i told her she could crash for the night, so we are laying in bed talking and getting to know each other, i go for a kiss but she tells me not until i take her out on a date ( in my head im getting pissed off ) so we talk some more and she starts telling me that her friends approve of me and that she has been checking my facebook stuff, so at this point i think she is REALLY into me. I go for another kiss and she denies again, but i come back at her with ..these are practice kisses, so when we are on are date they are perfect. she eats that up and we begin to make out and feel each other up. Next moring she leaves to go to class and i told her i would call her.
So few days go by and i text her a few times, and then i see her our class. We didnt really talk that much the whole class which i tought was really wierd, anyways class ends and as we are walking out we start talking and i asked her if she could get dinner that night but she said that she had to go to dance class with her friend so she couldnt. So i asked her if she want to go out to dinner another night, and she says " if you are lucky", so i said if im lucky..hmm ok ill give u a call.
Called her today and left her a message, asking what day she was free this week but never got a call back - i have no idea if she is playing hard to get or what ever but it is driving me crazy. Sorry for the long write up but had to give you some background info. Anything Helps - Thanks
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| Solomon II | PostPosted: Thu Apr 24, 2008 10:10 am | |
Joined: Sun Jan 27, 2008 2:18 pm Posts: 914 Location: Belfast, N. Ireland | | If she's playing hard to get, let her know you don't tolerate silly games. Ask her when she's next free so you can go and have fun together, and tell her that you won't ask her again after this time. If she says yes, great. If she says no, walk away. I'll put money on it right now that she'll chase after you... maybe not straight away, I mean if she doesn't take you seriously then she'll wait a few days then ask why you haven't been talking to her. To which you reply, "Because I told you I wouldn't". She'll be clawing at you by this stage and set up a date with you.
Go get her!
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| Resonance | PostPosted: Thu Apr 24, 2008 10:28 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Wed Nov 14, 2007 3:53 am Posts: 46 | | Dalziel's right on the money. Doing this, you're conveying higher value and non neediness. Remember that sometimes to win her you have to be willing to lose her
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| sweetw1982 | PostPosted: Thu Apr 24, 2008 12:32 pm | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum |  | Joined: Fri Dec 07, 2007 6:47 pm Posts: 102 Website: http://www.myspace.com/sweetw1982 Location: Troy, NY | | i say play the jealousy route. start gaming someone else and let her see the new girl hitting on you. also, i like the part about practice kisses. i am gonna use that one. _________________ B-Sweet
When you are the prize, you are like a diamond. If you allow her to become the prize, you become a cubix zarconia.
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| shazzbott | PostPosted: Thu Apr 24, 2008 7:09 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Thu Sep 06, 2007 9:38 am Posts: 53 | | yeah yeah, good stuff guys. Dalz that was exactly what i needed to hear. thanks for the help
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