We'll Im 21 years old and I'm a complete idiot when it comes to approaching girls.

First problem, I have no plan of attack (no "pick" up lines).

Second problem, I'm weird. I'm not your typical guy. I'm the type thats gonna approach someone and start a conversation by saying "Hey, do you know the meaning of life?" Straight to the main course, and most of the time the last.

Third problem, and I guess its the biggest one. I got BDD (body dismorphic dissorder). I know I'm not ugly cause women hit on me, but it doesnt help. I know you guys aint shrinks, but im just throwing this out there. 3

Fourth problem, I have no social life, hence no stories to talk about.

So in other words I need a miracle, can any of you perform that?

We cant do anything for you, you need to do it for yourself. We can help out by offering advice, but you need to go out and make changes, no matter how long it takes, any change is better than where you started.

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What I say when I see her is what I'll say.

I'd recommend finding friends. Get a job where you can find people like yourself, or find a wing on the forum here. That'll point you in the right direction.

Hi,

This is my first post, basically just an AFC taking my first steps. I'd suggest that you look into 'Self limiting thoughts' and see what you can take from that.

The BDD is something that you have to crack for yourself, but would it stop you pulling? Not if you are together with the other stuff.

Hey and as for weird, I wish I was a bit more strange, to go for the far out peacocking, I just don't feel comfortable/congruent - make it work for you.

...THAT'S AWESOME! I'm going to use this opener from now on. Thanks!

I'm dead serious. I can totally pull this off, and you probably can, too.

Welcome to PUAF, Zartic. The PUA community as a whole has resources available to you to aide you in improving any and every aspect of your love life. If you stick to your guns and follow our discipline, you'll be a pickup artist in no time.

First, if I were you, I'd look up articles about Limiting Beliefs. Your BDD may be causing you to have some limiting beliefs that hold you back in your romantic endeavors.

Take everything step by step.

By the way, I'm seriously going to use "Hey, do you know the meaning of life?" as an opener as soon as I get the chance.

Seriously. I think it's a great opener, especially for places outside of bars and clubs.

Your the type of person that could build your intuition fast. I suggest things such as cold reading, or metaphysical knowledge if you dont already have some.

Opening is a simple as noticing something about the person that people dont obvious ask them.

Opinion openers are the easiest to start with.

Take the meaning of life and make it an opinion. THink of two popular theroies of the meaning of life.

Real quick before i have to (go where ever) you look like an expert and i need an opinion on something.

Me and a friend are having a debate on the meaning of life. He says... but i say... whats your take on this?

boom your in...

~ Mystic

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do the exact opposite of what you are doing.

yo OP thanks for the opener, meaning of life. good stuff

those words in your opener mean next to nothing. That opener is totally legit. If your body language and frame are strong enough that could kill any girl.

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Man, thats why we have dating coaches, who can take you out by the hand and help you:

Read this article:

http://www.attractwomen.com.au/date_coa ... rvice.html