Hey, I have sex with girls however I am never able to get them to give me a blow job. How do I do this/ how do you do it?

Ask her about her favorite flavor of icecream and say you have some in your pants.

What do they say when you try to ask for one?

Here's an excellent technique to try - It is essentially a freeze out. If she doesn't want to blow you try agreeing with her BUT ruin the SPAM. She is in a very emotionally heightened state which she doesn't want to disrupt. One of the most powerful things you can do is stop what you're doing, turn on the lights and even maybe pretend you're ending it by putting your clothes back on.

She will be confused and horny. Essentially you punish her for not complying by cutting off the good feelings - the kissing, the intimacy, ect. I've done this to girls and had them try to get me back into it but I am resilient in asserting my authority as a man.

She wants the good feelings but she has to give something. This is powerful because you are showing respect for her wishes but punishing her at the same time. You are also responding to her in a way most AFCs would never dream of. She may start doing the stereotypical guy thing going "come on baby please." but this time you have the sexual control.

At this point you can assert your demands for what you want. You do it, she submits to you and the both of you have an amazing time.

Sounds like a very good technique, how often is this successful?

It's pretty universally successful because it is not so much tied to personality or culture as it is to hardwired behavior. If she is getting her brains fucked out she will feel terribly emotionally upset if the guy pulls away such intense emotions right in the middle. She will try anything to bring the feeling back like a heroin addict.

They usually just ignore the question if I do ask them. Sometimes I do it playfully and othertimes I just come out and ask them. I have also tried to just move their head down but that doesn't seem to work either.

why dont you just 69 or say you'll eat her out if she gives you a bj. or she aint gettin nothin like cn12 said

Give HER oral and the oral will come to you

Kittenx

Don't you talk about what was good afterwards? When you do that, bring up the topic of blowjobs and figure out why she is averse to them.

Or if she is really into you, you could be passive about it and talk about how much you LOVE them. Girls are pretty astute--they will usually pick up on stuff like that.

Have you ever gone down on her? If not, then you have little cause to complain. If you have, reciprocation ought to come.

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yes I think 69 is probably the best idea

or you just say that she can at least try and if she doesnt like ist she can quit whenever she wants
when she sees that you really like it she will maybe continue

that is very true..


do you do that johnjones? or do you go straight to the sex?

one way that always works for me is i get her to be on top of me while making out naked at some point..then just press my self against her stomach/pelvis area or wherever for that matter..and then she starts kissing my neck and moves down from there..

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A 69 is great if you get her on top of you, my favorite way to munch carpet.. once you have her going good, theres no way she couldnt, heck your johnsons right in her face!!! Another method that worked for me in the past is just get up, stand up or straddle her and just stick it in her face without asking, smack her face a few times with it and talk dirty a little,,,, either A. she will gobble your cock like a turkey dinner or B. she will refuse, in that case get up and do what the other guy suggest, give an indication that you are finished if you dont get what you want, and why not? there are plenty of girls that will do it, find out why she wont, it will make you look like you care, then stick it in her face again!!!!

The First thing that no one responded to was are you well groomed does it smell nice do you have an abnomality these are all HUGE DLV's. So address that first and foremost. Now There are two ways you can go A. the ALPHA way simply tell her shes going to do it. Remember its primative sex is and most (not all) woman want to be led and when she does it reward her with compliments terrible or not. The other way is the game way or return the favor game but this is a slow progression.......

1. Tell her your going to play a game called MIMIC
2.Start by touching her face(remember to play into womens errogonus zones) She will repeat.
3.Kiss neck she repeats
then go down so forth but very slowly thats the key to esculate this.
Then only kiss her through her panties at that point
pull aside go down on her but only for a sec make her do you so shell want more....
if she gets nervous Neg her tell her shes a poor sport CHALLENGE her
to beat you
9 out of 10 times this works for me at this point
if you freeze her out shell feel obligated if this is a ONS then fine but if its continual i do not agree with the freeze out.
oh and make sure your some what decent at going down
when she does go down on you act really into it pull her hair alittle (think Styles Evolution Game)

Envy

Step one. Take a shower together.
Step two. Get hard.
Step three. Help her notice your hard.

The rest should fall into place it, it always does for me.