He guys,
Last saturday i had a date with a girl i know from a dancing school.
2 months ago i've met her on a party trown by the dance school. We started to chat and had a great time. She ended up asking me my number to continue the conversation.
To me thats definitely an IOI and did wonders for my social status. We started chatting online when i asked her if she would like 2 come by and watch the movie 'the secret. she really was curious but was hesitant. She told me that she had a bad experience with a guy who she invited to her crib. this dude was utterly in love with her, she wasnt feeliong him and she had to turn him down which she found to be an unpleasant thing for her to do.

She did ask me to go out someday and have a drink. So i agreed to that.
So saturday we went to a loungebar to have a drink.

Firstly i mentioned i was a aries which caused her to look somewhat slightly disappionted. She told me that males in her family are dandy and always wanted to come across to know everything.

she confessed that im the first male that she invited to drink at her favorite spot where normally she went with her girlfriends.

furthermore she was supriced that she told me intimate details about herself that only her girlfriends got 2 know.
She found me to be a smooth guy! Lowering my voice in a seductive way whenever i complimented her. She did like it. I could tell by her fiddling her hair. The timing looked right so i asked her on a double-date. She didnt hasitate once and agreed happily.

Ive been working on a seduction routine and desided to use it on her. I asked her if she was adventurous. I went on by saying that i wanted to do something spontanious with her. The only thing she would have to know is where to be, how late, and what clothes to wear.. She giggled and didnt know how to respond. She was flabbergasted...
Her reply was that i got her curiousity and would be willing to go along with me upon 1 condition. and that was if it wasnt by my house.
During the whole event she repeated this like 20 times without me even mentioning the adventure that i had in store for her. This was odd to me, but i just played it cool.

We desided to take a walk in the city. i wanted to take a right turn but she wanted to take a left. She mentioned there were more people there.. To me that was an indication that shes still not completely comfortable with me. She was on her period and admitted to be a real bitch.

Its not that i want to lay this girl. Shes nice but physically not my type. My intention is to work on my game. My question is why she would mention not wanting 2 come home with me, without me even hinting at it. And coming back to the subject out of nowhere.. Due to my lack in practice i still cant say in what stage im in with her. Can someone please shed some light...

remember that women are more perceptive than men? it's just a long shot, but i think that she could sense that your gaming her.

i could be wrong in which case it must be because that most women (if not all) think that every guy has an intention of sleeping with her. even if it's not true. thus, her stating that she doesn't want to the venue to be at your place.

my advice is do more of a push and pull.

i think that you're doing fine on practicing your game on this girl but one should remember that we're playing with emotions here andyou should be careful on handling this.

hope this helps.