Ok, I'm gonna level with you guys. This is something no one else knows about. I am 24 and I have never even kissed a girl. Needless to say, I am a virgin.

Ok, I know its lame and that I am a big loser, but my catch 22 started a while ago. All the way back to high school where everyone was experienced in doing these things. Afraid of being a loser to an experienced girl, I did not ask them out because I was self conscious.

Thing is, it's not like I'm hideous or something. I am a bit overweight, but I have lost a lot of weight in the last few months which with every bit of modesty, is making me pretty darn attractive.

But the problem of inexperience still lingers. How can I kiss a girl when I know she will know it is my first time, or that I am so bad at it, that I must not kiss that often?

The obvious answer is to just stop procrastinating before it gets worse.

Hey how we all doing?

No one is ever good when they first start at anything. If I was in your shoes though I would use it to my advantage to get some crazy stories trust me a girl will feel a much greater connection to you if she is showing you the ropes.

ChowforNow,

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'Whether or not you agree with his harsh, straight to the point mentality, truth be told, he’s the most active/ dedicated / motivating member on this board. He’s routinely getting newbies and current members out sarging, pushing them into sets, given them suggestions and advice, replying to posts more often then anyone else. (Come out Wednesdays and you’ll see what I mean). Also, I have not once heard him making excuses about not going out and pussying out. If anyone else can show me this, I will automatically promote you to any status that you want on this board. (including admin).

Now .. I (and others) .. have tried a more sugar coated / feel good approach to getting guys to come out. Truth be told, it hasn’t worked anywhere close as well. I'm disappointed that with all the free resources, and the cool guys that we have offering free advice, so few people actually make use of it, go out consistently, and get better with women, instead of dabbling and keyboard jockeying.'

'How did it start?Well, I don't know.I just feel the craving.I see the flesh and it smells fresh.And it's just there for the taking.'

'Looking at my own reflection When suddenly it changes Violently it changes Oh no there is no turning back now You've woken up the demon in me'

'Only see, somehow it always seems that I'm learnin' or something I can never be It dosen't matter to me, 'cause I will always be that pimp I see
in all my fantasies I don't know your fucking name.So what?
Let's.fuck'

'Scrutinize every word, memorize every line
I spit it once, refuel, re energize, and rewind
I give sight to the blind, mind sight through the mind

Ok the kiss is'nt really a big deal, i dont think girls are that bothered weather you are a good at kissing or not. Its other things that keep them coming back.
I've kissed girls that were terrible at it, with this 1 girl actually hurt, i was pain. But thats very rare.
But my point im making is, i was very polite and i didn't say nothing. So i doubt they're gonna say anything. And if they are really that attracted to you wont matter, they wont mind. You'll pick it up real fast, trust me, easy, just enjoy it

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I think you can actually make it your edge, if you connect with a girl and admit it in a kinda playful way, which would keep her wondering. Then after the kiss you can always say "How's that for a first kiss?", as if you meant to do it that way. 2 little points:
1. Don't worry about the technique, I think we're all born with it and just be natural.
2. When it comes to the first kiss, girls care much more about the mood, how you and they feel at that moment and all the other stuff than about the kiss itself. Just watch this short vid, it breaks it down quite well.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VK6bZj47LWs[/youtube]