i just got into this whole pua.....thing/concept. i would say im a pretty gifted natural but whenever i approach and get past comfort and attraction(used to work without pua techniques but now using them helps) i use the mystery kissing technique or wateva. They always,always say stop i dont want to seem like a slut i only just met you. WTF!!! anyone know how to get past this? big sticking point for me

Yeah, sounds like your going too fast and not building enough comfort. Also make sure you have kino enough going on first. Use compliance tests to help you out a little. And maybe it is obvious that you're thinking about going in for kiss, keep the relaxed SPAM, practice building the tension and work into the kiss when she is'nt exactly expecting it.

This should help, google DD's 'the kiss test'. It tells you a Great compliance test before the k close.
I prefer this to mystery's one.

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Oh yeah and to answer your question. If you ever get this again dont show her that her words have any effect on you and just say 'i undestand'.

(With a good level of kino of course)

Or you could try a freeze out or another IOD, but i dont think its always a good idea in this situation.

Or just dont saying anything and carry on talking like it never happened. Then when you feel she is ready go for it again.

But if you play solid game in the first place it wont happen.

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I have been using basic PUA techniques and I have a general rule for sex. I suggest the first move but I make her take it. I generally only go in for the kiss unless I know she's itching for it. I will generally break off the kiss with her still wanting more. It takes willpower but if you remember that this chick right here doesn't matter, it's the game and your development in it that matters, it becomes much easier.

Wait a minute.

Mysterys Kiss-close:
"Would you like to kiss me?"
->> Y / N
Kiss / "I didnt say you could, but it looked like you had something on your mind".

They can't say "Stop", it's not a valid answer. Then it's not his routine.

But I get your point.

You say you're somewhat of a natural - if you got the kissing working before - don't change it!

What they say is feedback for you, and I agree with mozyFresh here, you don't have enough comfort. Go and do more attraction and comfort, and remember to go kino early. If you don't have any kino - you can't kiss.

HBhitman does have a very good point there; you don't have to kiss her. She could kiss you. Perhaps you are too eager to kiss her. Dude, relax! You don't have to kiss her at all.

sweet thanks for the replys.

its not with every chick but usually the hotter ones say that which pisses me off since im moving from 7's to 8's roughly. To you saying im not using the mystery technique i used the technique they say yes then i move in and then say ASD!!

if she does that is it bad to persist or just relax get another girl and see her another night?

No you dont go get another girl, well you do if she continues to be resistant too many times, have patience and see her as a challenge to practice your game.
Just get more comfortable with each other and keep it fun, but sometimes serious, and build positive sexuel tension. If one k close aint working, try another approach. Experiment a little.






I dont always give great advice...
sometimes i give good advice

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