Hey guys!

Im just gonna get right to it.

I have been seeing a HB9 for about 7 months, she is awesome.
We totally respect eachother (im even allowed to sarge), we both aren't the jealous types, I know where I got her, cant say that she knows where she got me cause I dont know. I've met her father (spent quality time alone just him and I), and met her sister too. And all of her BFF's. I've been crashing at her place while her family is at home. She has posted pictures on her instagram of me and her. We been doing all those regular things couples do. And it feels really nice to be with someone, but at the same time I dont want to miss out on sarging, and becoming an AFC when the relationship ends. Thats why Im still sarging, and its funnier to sarge knowing that I already have someone I like, it kind of makes me more cocky and more confident, and gives me time to just try different styles. I will focus on being a great wingman and get girls for my friends, because I've never winged on that type of level.

So all my buddies (both girls and guys) have been asking what we are, if were together or whats up.
I dont really know what to answer since I don't really know what we are.

All the evidence points to that we are a couple, but we haven't had that talk yet.
I wonder about this from time to time but at the same time I dont think its nessecery because to bring it up because I believe that she will bring it up sooner or later, but what do I know, I havent been in many relationships in my life

Should I bring it up, or should I just stick to my plan and keep taking things one day at a time just being with eachother?

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Most people are just talkers, all they got is talk, but when all said is done it's the doers who change this world.

Do you want to be her boyfriend or just her part-time lover? If you are serious about her, channel your pickup skills into other areas. Seduction is a sales skills, use it at work. Be closer on the job. Use your social skills to build a relationship with each member of her family. Not all relationships are sexual, but being charming and cool still helps!

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Sounds like a perfect start on a good relationship!

Since that i've been in 3 long term relationships (which also is the reason why i became a AFC again),
my recommendation is; do NOT bring "where are we"-convo. Because that would decrease your DHV and increase her self esteem (belive me, a girl with higher self esteem that you have is not the perfect combination in a relationship). What i've learned, is that the important thing in a relationship is not only the trust, it's the fear of loosing the other partner (I'm not talking about anxiety, i'm talking about to see the value of the other person).

If she's seeing high value in you, she will bring that convo up sooner or later.

Well that's my experience after ~5 years in a relationship (3 girls). Maybe i'm wrong, but i'm pretty confident in my opinion.. But ofc it's up to you to decide.

Good luck!

I like her, she is fun and adorable.
And I like the way we have it, that I can do whatever I want to do, even when im with her.
And I can also flake on her to be with my boys without her being mad about it.

I will always switch up my game. Im the leader. Im suppose to show her the way. And all she can do is respect it. But a relationship is based on "You give, and you take." So ofcourse I want to make her happy too.

When it comes to her dad, he respects me for even taking my time to spend time with him.
Her past boyfriends didn't even say Hi to him or even make an effort to connect on some level.
I've been taught that when it comes to parents its important to make an impression.

And to see her eyes and how curious she was about me spending quality time alone with him was fun.
I had the advantage, so I teased her. Saying things like "Oh, so you were that kind of child?",
"You spoiled little brat", "You did alot of stupid things as a child, you badass!". Her father and I didnt even talk about her while spending time alone. Its to soon to do that. She still wonders what we talked about, she dont have the guts to ask her father, and even though he will say "Nothing", she wont believe it.

I haven't met her younger step brother or mom yet, but I will have the pleasure to meet them at some point.
And Im confident that I will make a great impression.

Anyway, I haven't brought that question up because she beat me to that point while we cuddled.
Asking me "What is your relationship status" I answered "Its complicated"
(I know that was not what she wanted to hear, but I like teasing her.)
So I asked her the same question, and she told me that she wants me.
I never replied. Im such a douchebag! But I will bring it up on valentines day, since i've planned out something for us.

Only been in 1 relationship, but I was young and foolish.
So it will be exciting to see how it will be, now that im older and smarter.

Thanks for your oppinion guys!

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There are 2 kinds of people when you boil it all down, you got your talkers and you got your doers.
Most people are just talkers, all they got is talk, but when all said is done it's the doers who change this world.