Hi, i was wondering, when you guys go out and sarge in bars, do you have drinks everytime or attack sober?

i figure that if i am to get in bars several times a week for a few years, perhaps drinking everytime is not such a good idea, but its kinda hard to avoid.

what do you guys do?

thanks!

Drink a few drinks but don't get drunk. You'll mess your game up. I look at drinks like a prop.

People say that it is best not to drink, because then you can have a clear mind, however, I always like to have a drink or two when I am out as it helps you loosen up and enjoy yourself that bit more.

Have some drinks but do not open a set with it in your hand. Finish it or leave it at the table.

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Double Your Dating by DD
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I always have a few to loosen up, makes me more social and funnier I think, plus I think it gives me a lil bit more stamina in the bedroom than when I'm sober... but I definately don't get drunk, the machinery has to work to close...

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I used to drink heavily as an AFC beleiving that it made me more intresting, have less inhabitions, and generally have more fun.

Now i realize i used to drink to make other people intresting and fun, and that to really get over my inhabitions on a long term basis i needed to have a clear head.

Now when i go out i make it a personal rule not to buy myself any drinks, i only drink if i can get a girl to buy me one. Instead i order seltzer water, looks the same as holding any other drink and usually its free .

I've found it a million times easier to observe both external social interactions (between people im not involved with) and also internal social interactions (with people im directly interacting with). I also find myself able to process the information i take in, adapt on the fly, and later really look back and make changes. When i used to drink i would just wake up with a head ache and if i was lucky some memories...

IMO at least til my game becomes natural i will not drink on my own accord, i think the terms i setup for myself to have a drink reward me for the effort i put into sargeing, and thus add incentive to help me overcome my insecurities and inhabitions.

Hope this helps.

Exactly, if your walking around talking to women with no form of drink in your hand, then it looks like your just there to pick-up women... we don't want added bitch sheilds if they can be avoided.

I usually have about 2 drinks in the course of an evening when I'm going to be sarging.

And if you walk around with a drink in your hand talking to women, you look like every other AFC there.

It makes some people feel comfortable to have things in their hand. I think it is more of a hinderence.

As a frame of referrence, durring the show (VH1), none of them had a drink in their hand ever.

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Recommended reading list.

Double Your Dating by DD
(This will work on your inner game)

http://www.freewebs.com/xfman/
(This will work on your outer game)

i was going to post something like this. i ALWAYS have a drink in my hand. Didnt think it would be an issue. Ill have to leave it then lol

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