OK, I can't really seem to find a socially comfortable way to move to another set. what are a few good ways to leave a set (whether it is because you've crashed and burned or you just feel that you should go meet more people and would like to talk to this group later)?
Also, on this note. When sarging, what's a good way to chill and wait for your buddy to open a set without looking creepy. I've done the leaning against the wall or whatever but it just seems like I'm terribly alone and everyone in the room knows it.

First thing, it shouldn't be a big deal for you to leave the set if in your openers you've built in your False Time Constraints! If you run an opener with I need your opinion on something, but I can only stay for a second. It should be tough to roll off, because you said, "I can only stay for a second, or I really should get back to my friends, but....(insert opener)."

As far as your wing or buddy opening a set while you hang out. I have had a lot of debate about this fact with my wing. We've figured out the best thing to do is if he's in a set it's all him, I'm in my own set, or I'm busy doing something. Don't just stand around please! For example, you wing is working a set, and your just standing around. The group will notice, so when you finally get the signal to come in and he's trying to DHV you it's not going to work. You need to be as social and cool as your buddy or wing! That's why you all hang together because you two are the shit!

J SMOOTH

The problem is that you are just not used to opening up sets, what I suggest is " Just do it " , my modo is if you don't try is the same as trying and failing there is no difference.

This is good way to open up a set, walk up to some HB and say why do you keep looking at me, do you like me or something, they will say what? then start laughing, they will too then start laughing, then go into a routing and start stacking, good luck.

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