So I have this hb9 friend that I've known for about 7 years. I had always been attracted to her and about a year ago, I went for it and we finally hooked up. We slept together a few times but admittedly, it they weren't my best performances. She lives far away now so i haven't seen her in 3 months or so. It now looks like I'm deep in the LJBF zone because the last time I saw her she didn't want to even make out, let alone give me an opportunity to make up for the poor performances.
We speak on the phone about once a week and chat 2 or 3 times a week. I've been mentioning other girls to her and negging her a bit, which is different from before where I showed too many symptoms of onitis after we slept together. She's coming up to visit in a few weeks. How can I get out of the LJBF zone and into bed with her again? What techniques can i practice in the upcoming weeks so she decides to mess around w/ me again and not see me as just a friend?

Has she shown ANY IOI's toward you lately? While you've been negging her and DHVing yourself?

You wanna keep doing what you're doing. Its kinda like doing a partial take away because you are acting so distant. She's gonna try for your attention and then you can reward her a bit with a bit of friendly kino.

Now if she isn't IOIing you like Tripp asked, and she doesn't fight for your attention, then you're fucked, give it up. If she does show IOIs and responds the way we want, then you have a chance and just run proper game on her and you should be fine. You just need to show that you are smoother and more accomplished and sure of yourself in order to attract her. Once she's attracted, then you just need to PROVE that you have better skill and performance than before. If you can't do that, then work on being better in that area, or its not gonna help to get her attracted, because you can't do anything for her after that.

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Thanks for the quick response and good advice guys.
It's a bit difficult 4 me to know if she's given IOI's, since most of our communication is with either text, IM, or phone. But she did tell me that i'm like her boyfriend 'cause she always logs into chat just to tell me about her day. She's also asked if I've met anybody else and sends me texts when I ignore her chat messages. I also recently started mentioning other girls and she immediately counters with guys that like her.
Either way, I'm going to give myself the benefit of the doubt when I finally meet up w/ her and run some routines on her. If anybody has any tips or advice, let me know Thanks.

Those are all blatant IOIs. Keep going. Just follow standard procedure

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So this past weekend I finally met up w/ my friend and i'm happy to report it as a success. After a few weeks of negs over the phone and very little contact through email/chat, we met up this weekend and she was a completely different person. She was much more 'touchy feely' than before and a bit more cheesy.
i started off by giving her a small, mandatory-like hug when we first saw each other. She immediately initiated a larger, longer hug and wouldn't let go for about a minute. I of course felt happy to see her but showed more indifference than other times. The whole night I pushed and pulled and DHVed until i felt was the right time to physically make a move. I asked her what she would do if I kissed her and she playfully said slap me (tried it the week before w/ someone else and got the same response). I responded by saying I wasn't going to do it and was just asking. She eventually baited me into kissing her, but I punished her by teasing her and kissing her neck insted. The rest will be left for all you to fill in, and BTW, this performance was worthy enough for a second and third night.

Good job and keep going with her. Keep progressing.

"I don't know what it is, but little by little, you're unlocking my heart" .....is the message I just read from the girl who I never thought I could (re)seduce. I haven't seen her since she came up a few weeks ago, but we've chatted every day and in the process, tried many routines and now she falling in love. I never considered myself an AFC, but now I'm thinking I was since I learned a lot since reading "The Game" and joining this forum. She prides herself from having so many guys after her (including me) and not falling for any of them. But after pushing and pulling, negging, and acting indifferent towards her, I've been able to bring her closer to me. Thanks to everybody who gave advice.

Positive proof there is a God and his game was pickup.

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