In Highschool, during 30min lunch.

Wing and I were talking to this HB6.5(wing's friend), I was playful with her, reached comfort, did not initiate any attraction routines. hb6.5's friend, a hb7 comes over, and they are talking. at one point wing and I are talking, and i assume the hbs were talking about 'homecoming court' and voting for the king and queen or some shit like that. and hb7 cuts off my conversation with wing, and says,"I'm going to vote for you".

Me:"Why?"
hb7:"haha i don't know"
Me:"I think it's because you think i'm cute.(she started to get the 'wtf?' look on her face until i said) Well hey, it's not going to work, i don't sell myself for votes.
hb7:"ah dang it!"
us:haha

than we fluffed until an hb8.5 came over and tapped my shoulder, i turn and say whatsup(by now i noticed that the hb7 doesn't look happy about the hb8.5 coming over), she says something and somebody asks her if she dropped out. she explains that she dropped out then came back.

Wing:"you can't just do that, leave and come back"
me:"yea you can't just be walking around here doing whatever you want"
hb8.5:"yeah i can i'm the boss"
me:"no no, in my world, i'm the boss"
hb8.5:"nope, i'm the boss"
me:"what do you think wing, do you think hb8.5 can boss you and I around?"
wing:"hb8.5? no, no way"

by this time her body language was about bored with us, what do you think would have worked best here?

hb8.5 leaves, and i introduce myself to hb6.5 on the goodbye, she asks me to make a secret handshake with her, so i do, neg her on her not being smooth. than i was out.

help plz

to the bossy thing-
i woulda said something like: "All right maybe u think u can boss around all these other chumps (look all around u)... but we are too hot shit for that. Especially because I can see right through you. I know who u really are. Blablabla." then go into cold reading routine

ur issue was that u didnt transition fast enough - and u didnt really neg her by just saying:
at least in the way u typed this - it sounds very childish - just arguing who is the boss. Sounds like me and my lil bros when we were 6.
dont just say it - prove ur the boss bcuzz u r

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Sounds like your interactions with HB6.5 and HB7 went well. HB8.5 pretty much AMOG'ed you even she's a lady.I'd say when she says she dropped out then came back say something like.

ME: "Thats great barbie! Now go run along and play with Skipper"
Then turn my back to her and keep talking to HB7, You can't let her run roughshot over you just because she's hot and probably runs over most people... not you! Your the alpha in this social circle dammit!

Or if it was to late for my other line you can still get it mid convo

Wing:"you can't just do that, leave and come back"
me:"yea you can't just be walking around here doing whatever you want"
hb8.5:"yeah i can i'm the boss"
me: "haha thats so cute"
HB8.5: "What is?"
me: "We're not back at your playhouse anymore barbie... We're big kids here"


She's trying to use the fact that she's pretty to display power over you and the others in the group. Use it as a double edged sword, and cause her percieved beauty to be linked with diminished intellegence. This makes her choose she can use her looks and get no respect... or she can lower the bitch-sheild and play on equal terms with everyone else.

I woulda just ignored her and paid more attention to the less attrative chicks...make her work for your attention, dont just give it to her because shes better looking then the others...

Would you rather argue over petty bs with a hot chick or possibly hook up with a less attrative chick?