Are there any methods out there for instant messenger game?

NEVER pick up a girl via
IM, unless you have already
built attraction. Mystery says
"stay away from the net when
trying to pickup women."

However, if you REALLY want
to, then the same methods that
you use in real life will work on
the net.

Hmmm David deangelo says to use the internet as much as possible because its the ultimate simulator.But anyway i know this HB9 from a while back and have her IM address so i might as well try. I know a dude who gamed this same girl through the internet so it shows that it is possible.

I LOOOOOOOVE MSN. On MSN I am a GOD. In real life, I am still getting over AA and I find a lot of the time girls will totally catch me off guard by doing utterly random stuff and I don't get quite enough time to think though what is going on before responding. On MSN, you can take your time, you can make sure that your spelling and grammar are good and that your use just the right words, because you can think things through more thoroughly.

IM isn't a substitute for the real world, because you are going to have to get good in real life so that if you meet that girl from online, you can still do good in person, or when you meet girls out in the field you don't just pass them by because they you aren't behind the safety of your computer screen. It is a great training ground though, because you can feel safe to work on your game, just don't end up using it exclusively and make it a crutch.

On thing I like to do is try to replay situations that I had irl with girls online and then I feel more comfortable about pushing the boundries and I can see how they respond and then feel better about pushing it further next time I'm in the field.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

I disagree completely with that. I echo all the positive reasons stated bye Rye Lee, amd Mii.

Personally I feel I have great sucess online. If I geta girl on IM it's pretty
much over... I think you can build attraction, and comfort over IM, and just so long as you pickup right where you left off on the IM's your jobs almost done as soon as you meet the girl.

Honestly I SN close about 40% when I decide to do a little myspace sarging... and SN to a date is probably about 90% I say 90 but honestly I can't remember the last time I didn't get a "date" after a SN close.

Just play it how you would in real life... and I like to use the tounge out smily ALOT to show playfullness.

Also another advantage to IM is you can game several girls at once... I find it incredibly efficent

Yeah, I really love how because IM is only words and insinuated emotions, a lot of people find it hard to have a good interaction and build rapport, because they feel silly using emoticons. When I start running game on MSN, its incredibly rare that there isn't at least one tongue out, or winking smiley on the screen at once (and I keep the window pretty small). By using the right mix of cocky/funny, sarcasm, inuendo, straight forward remarks and a bunch of smileys to show that its all in fun and that you aren't worried about looking silly, you can build tons of attraction and comfort.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

Well disagree with me all you
want, bro. But I'm just following
what the MPUA says! lol

And I HAVE picked up women
over the net. There is no doubt
at all that it is not possible.

Use the search and look up some
of my online conversations that I
have posted verbatim. They are
really great pick ups.

Anyways, good luck.

On MSN I use onions a lot.. they have so many of them that you can use for just about any topic of conversation and it keeps the interest high because some females can't believe how creative you can be online.
If you don't know what I am talking about look up "Onions Emoticons" they are really great.
I think the problem with sarging on MSN and the like is that you have to learn to keep it short and simple with certain females.. specially those with short attention spans. You don't want to be held waiting for a response from the other end as it will show taht you have time to waste.. so same rules will apply... you don't have much time to talk and try to keep em guessing and wanting more. If you do it right you should have a lot of "hi's" when you log on.. I would also recommend not being the first to say hello all the time as it shows needyness.

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Let the Lyrics do your talking

How do i have a real non afc conversation i dont really no her so we have not that much to talk about. Is there a guide on msn sarging?

If you are myspace sarging and you see a hb while your browsing, a great opener that i have used, and that has worked is this
Me-"Thant cant be your profile pic"
HB-"Whys that?"
Me-"Cause girls from (insert town) are'nt hot"
HB-"Well this one is"
Me-"I still dunno bout that
Hey im going to blahblahblah on the weekend. Cant wait have you
been?"
ect
ect
ect.

I dunno what you think. But this has worked EVERY time. Mind you ive only tried it on bout 3 birds.

Cheers.

Keep it light, at least until you really get her hooked, then you can open up and show a bit of your vulnerable side to make her really attracted to you. Be funny, don't be serious. Get her to want to start a webcam convo if you both have them. If you are the only one with a webcam, then don't turn yours on and let her watch you one sided, that's afc. If you watch her one sided, that shows that she's comfortable and trusts you, but can also be good if she's wearing anything skimpy at all as an IOI. Don't ask to start a webcam chat, but if you're at the stage where you think she'll do it, then you can just click on hers and then when she accepts, turn yours on too. The good thing about webcam convos is that you won't usually end up waiting for as long for replies as you do sometimes with no webcams.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye