ok so last night i sort of targeted this HB8 in my social circle at this party last night, got KINO( a hug) plus i negged her like twice, i was being cool and acting somewhat uniterested, like ten minutes later, her along with like half of the party went to another party. They all claimed they were coming back so i stayed at the first party, they eventually left that other party and all just went home.

my only problem about last night is that i didnt really try, but i felt like i was doing some of the material right.

can anyone help me with this? is this good? or bad? or what?

thanks
big 'O'

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Vic Vega

alright well, a single hug, although better then nothing, isnt much to go on. it sounds like you may have played everything by the book, but at the very minimal amount. now had you been on your game, she would have never left the party that you were at. you flirted perhaps, talked a little, but you didnt demonstrate any value. you weren't the center of attention in the group, you didnt flirt with other girls, thus making you an object of prize. next time, focus less on her. be more involved with the group. ignore her even. this is part of the mystery method. be the center of attention in the group, but dont acknowledge her much, and when you do, neg her. finally, apologize for leaving her out and ask if you can step aside with her to give her a shot at the attention she deserved. basicly you need to make yourself desirable to her.

good luck man,

PrettyBoy

i appreciate it prettyboy, im gonna see if i can pull that off tonite

thanks
big 'O'

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Vic Vega

I don't see very great results from being so forward as to tell a girl you are now going to give her a chance at the attention she deserves. First, you just told her she deserves attention, that's terrible game. Second, you told her what you're doing, just ruined all your careful planning. The best way to do it is to keep it all unspoken and done through body language and carefully targetting who you are talking to and when you allow her into the conversation.

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