I've just been introduced to the PUA idea, I've never even knew there was a show about it. After reading a lot on this site I've learned that I do use some PUA tactics but I also demonstraite AFC traits. Here is where I'm at with this chick(not really one-itis, but would like to land her).

THE STORY:
I used to work with her and at that time she had a bf and I had a gf. I left that job and didn't see her for almost a year. I ran into her last week at a bar and she approached me. The first question she asked me was if I still had a gf. At the time I did (we broke up a week after this) and told her so but said that it may not be for long. She said ok well let me know if anything happens. So she danced on me for a bit and then I acted like I had more important things to attend to and excused myself from her and left the bar. She messaged me on myspace saying that it was good seeing me and she had fun. So I messaged back that it was an ok time and we might do it again in the future. She then replied back with her phone # and wanted mine. I gave her mine and she texted me a few times during that week. I told her I would be out that following saturday and she wanted me to meet up with her. I ended up meeting her at a bar and we hung out for a bit and then she wanted to go to my favorite bar. I told her ok and I would meet up with her a bit later. When I got to the bar she was standing around with some guy friends who were all flirting with her. She introduced me to them and I started talking to them more than her. She noticed and kept trying to get my attention. I finally left the group and went to sit down. She kept looking towards me while talking to the guys and finally left them to come over with me. We chatted some more and I told her what I was doing after bar closing and she said she wanted to come. After giving negging her a bit I told her could come if she wanted. She ended up coming over after bar closing and she hung out while a few of us watched a movie. The whole time she laid in my lap. When it was time to go I was trying for the K-close but was blocked by her female friend. The girl has texted me and called me a few times and I've acted like I'm busy and can't chat with her much. I told her I would be out at the bar on thursday and she said she would definitly be there cause she didn't want to miss out.

THE PROBLEM:
She's demonstriated IOI's but she's kinda hung up on an ex and she's also trys to shelter herself from being hurt because of a previous bad relationship. One of her friends claims that she doesn't like me like that (not that it matters) and I don't stand a chance. Am I on the right track and can I do something better to get her full interest? Sorry for the long post but any help advice would be much appreciated.

That must be cool to know that you have been practicing the game without even knowing about it. I would say that she is definitely into you and that you are on the right track. Her friend's comment about not liking you that way COULD be her way of just trying to throw you off; like an indirect way to shoo you away from her in order to avoid more relational hurt.

I would just keep gaming the way you are. It's working.

Look up some stuff on the "push-pull routine" in the seduction stage if you get there. I read this post today too; it may help tips-and-observations-vt8746.html .
Hope this helps.

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I agree definatly going in the right direction... Her friend is just some unhappy cockblocking bitch more then likely.

Keep playin it the way you are, only thing I might add is if she's still hung up on her X-BOREFRIEND using a pattern to take the positive feelings she has for him still, and change the way she mentally likns them on to you.

Search for patterning... Theres a Ross Jeffreys pattern specifically designed to do that.

Would that pattern be the one where she associates her feelings while you're making a gesture with your hands so she associates those feelings with that and then you use that gesture as you speak to her and then she associates those feelings with you?

I'd use a variation of the Pattern 1 to get her to transfer those feelings from him to you. These are called Rose patterns powerfull stuff, just be carefull what you link and to who (or what)

http://www.fastseduction.com/guide/03_A ... rose.shtml

I'll give that a try. We are supposed to go out to the bars thursday night, and if she doesn't come out then I will be playing the field.

One thing that stood out to me: Why are you going out with her to clubs and bars?

If it were me, I'd eliminate the competition. Have some alone time with
her. You've got her number. She's showing interest. Why are you going to
take her to places where guys are going to hit on her and her friends
are going to block you?

You have comfort with her, right? Have a DVD night at your place or
something. Get her alone.

the idea of a DVD night or something that gets her alone has already popped into my head. The problem is I don't have my own place and she lives with her parents still.

I'm sure you can bribe your roommates out of the place for a few hours. ;)

Look at it this way, if you end up sleeping with her, it's going to be at your
place anyway, right?

Try this. Invite her over. As soon as she arrives, leave, just you and her,
and go out and have a mini-date. The grocery store, an uncrowded bar,
ice-cream parlor, whatever... just no friends of hers or yours.

Make sure you build comfort and kino-escalate, then when you get back
to your place she'll feel more comfortable going straight to your room
(because your living room is crowded).

I know how it is. I rent from a friend and don't really have the place
to myself. Make sure you don't go down that dark road of making
excuses and getting in your own way of success.

So last night this chick calls me before her class to confirm that we are hanging out. So as the night goes on I never hear from here when her class was supposed to get out. She finally texts me around 2am to say sorry and she forgot to call me because she got hung up at school but she will be staying in town this weekend so we should do something. I told her if I had the time for her I would. So then today she texts me to tell me that she's busy tonight because she is going on a double date. I replied back like I wasn't interested in what she was doing and it wasn't a big deal. Is this some kinda of shit test? Should I freeze her out?

Sometimes you can be TOO indifferent or disinterested.

Only from what you've posted here, it seems that you don't have
the same phone/text game. She responded positively to your negs
and push-pull in person, so keep doing what's working for you.

I'm not there, so I don't know how strong the tension actually is
between you two, but if it's high enough, I'd say the double-date
was a shit test and you should have negged her for it instead of
acting disinterested.

I would have txted something back like: "Awww...that's so cute.
I hope he's pretty. :)" and/or "Feel free to call me when he
bores the shit out of you and I'll come rescue you."

On the other side of the coin, you don't have to answer every single
text/call a girl sends. You could have not responded to the 2AM OR
the shit test for that matter. That will keep her guessing big time.