Well I am just 3 mnths old into all this..anyways...I picked up a girl at a bar 2 weeks ago..I used my routine..it worked..she gave ioi's ...we spoke on the phone for a week and all was going good..now all of a sudden when we were talking yesterday..and i was teasing her on how she likes me..she told me that she does like me a lot..but does not want to commit to a relationship...just bcuz she had a bad first experience..well I am an Indian..so def sex is not on her mind lol..well I know she is not the only girl in the world..bt jus for learning basis..wat shud I do in such a situation?

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A rich man doesn't have to tell you he's rich"... "You will know by looking at him!!

show her you like her. but odnt be nice guy about it. were talking subtle, and if she mentions it then be like kinda indifferent. if she goes away you dont care right? thats kinda a good atittude. its very dhv. but tbh i dunno why you even let her mention a relationship. id go straight to afc again. and wtf, your indian? that doesnt change a thing. if you really wanyt her, make her feel like it doesnt matter about her first time. tell her allt hat matters is the here and now, and right here, right now, you want her. hope i was of help.

your friend,

Shred

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"I learnt my passion in the good old fashoned school of lover boy!"

i'd probably disqualify myself and then DHV a few times. sounds like she's comfortable with you but attraction has died down a bit, so she's saying that she likes you because she does, but you're dangerously close to LJBF, which is why she mentioned not being ready for a relationship.
work on building more attraction and you should be good. i think some push pull could work well here...

HB: im not looking for a relationship, im scared blah blah
me: thats good because i'm not boyfriend material *run DHV routines*

he knows what hes talking about ^^^^ thats some good advice right there

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"I learnt my passion in the good old fashoned school of lover boy!"

thnxs guys...ill go ahead wit ur advice

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A rich man doesn't have to tell you he's rich"... "You will know by looking at him!!