Wzup folks.....my name is Thoroughbred

I'm new to the forum....new to community.....I have a question that I'm not sure has been discussed. Is there a general code oof ethics or rule of thumb when it comes to women who are "taken" or in said "relationships"?

The question is important to me because i carry w/ me my own code of conduct in life....nonetheless, as I study these dynamics & analyze my own aocial skills & experiences I find myself having to rework & forge new values.....or at least challenge existing ones....

Throughout my life in almost every instance thaat I've been w/ a woman....there's been some other guy in the background.....either she's w/ him & wants to come over to my playpen....or she's moving away from him & wants to play w/ me.....In either case, I'm like the greener grass. As i think about it...it makes me a little uncomfortable b/c it's like it just doesn't stop......I meet all of these broads who have something going on already & fewof them are really forthcoming w/ the information.....I just have a problem w/ the deceit. Is this just the way it is......am I gonna really have to be taking guy's girlfriends & having my way w/ them? Please somebody tell me that there are some boundaries that are respected.

BOYFRIENDS

this should not stop you from sarging her. act as if she did not have one, as for the reasons she may say she has one.. search BF destroyers and learn how to take over.

do not ask about her boyfriend and do NOT appear fazed if she mentions him. he may not even exist. just take it as an instance of a lack of interest caused by you telegraphing too much intereest far too soon.


Some reasons that a Woman might say she has a Boyfriend

1. though she doesn't have a BF she is not attracted to you or ou miscalibrated your esclation

2. she DOES have a BF and given her current options, she has chosen to stick with that relationship

3. she odes have a BF and IS willing to sleep with you but wants o make sure that you understand her situation first, she wants discretion and understanding. and though he might be available to you for sex, she is not immediately available for any more of a commitment

4. she does have a BF and she is willing to cheat on him (if u game is tight this is very possible) but she doesn want tofeel guilty about it. this is her rationalization process at work. as long as she mentions sthe BF before sleeping with you, she can rationalize to herself that it was your fault. sure she might regret it later but that won't necessarily stop her from cheating.

5. she doesn't have a bf and she is attracted to you shejust doesnt want to look like a loser who cant get a man. most hot women have orbiters anyway: nice guys who pose as their friends but secretly want to sleep with them. since the word "bf" can have so many diff meanings, she is tinking of one of her orbiters as a "place keeper"

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personally i think its all fair until she has a ring on her finger thats wear i draw the line

I agree, I won't touch married women... bad karma, but a BOREFRIEND is free game, not my fault if his lady wants me