WHAT SHOULD I DO WITH A HB7 THAT WANTS A RELATIONSHIP AND ALL I WANNA DO IS BANG HER. THIS LADY HAS BEEN PLAYED ALOT OF TIME BY OTHER MEN. HOW CAN I MAKE HER FEEL NOT USED AND STILL BANG HER?

A PUA attracts women. A real man decides if the relationship is worth even investing in.

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dude respect the girl. Don't take her for that girl you wanna jsut fuck. Have respect, show some compassion.

i don't think this has much to do with the mentality of a PUA. more like a desperate guy in my opinion.. talk to her about it, and let her know that you do not want a relationship. quit focusing on this one girl and focus on 10 at once. if you are gaming 10, 1 won't matter too mucht you, especially if you are just looking for a constant bang. don't try to trick an HB into banging if she wants something out of it you do not. that is no good. you have a long way to go man. -Rye

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the whole purpose of the game is to have HER want to bang you. i don't mean have her seduce you outright, but have her want to sleep with you, for fulfilling her own emotional needs. this way she's not getting hurt even if you don't want a relationship, since it came from her side anyway.

so your question basically is the most basic question every pua asks: how can i get sex without commitment.

be a charmer and get her to want you, otherwise leave her alone and find someone who wants to have sex. chances are if you only want to bang her, you'll forget about her pretty quickly once you bang someone else. maybe your ego will hurt a bit that you didn't "win the challenge", but, i don't know what about you, but i personally think with my dick not with my ego most of the time

good luck!
gigi @ puaratings

dont get me wrong I am not tring to trick her at all. I am not going to tell her that I want something that I clearly dont. I am true believer of the do not ever leave a woman worse than what you find her rule. I just want some advice in helping her fell more comfort with me.

I mean damn this lady is 34 with 4 kids and a dead husband. I am only 23 and i dont want her getting any hopes of a relationship.

drop hints. . . "my brother/cousin has been in a serious relationship for a few years and I feel for him, Im not ready for that kinda thing" - this may make her want you more. If she probes say somthin like "I aint a player, youre a cool person but I like to take things slow"

wow dude.. that's quite a situation there, 4 kids, 11 years older than you, lost someone dear.. that's kind of a complicated situation to get yourself into just for a shag! i sincerely think you should skip this one. if you like her as friend tell her that you should just stay friends. and mean it. because at least in my opinion it's the right thing to do. and by the way chances are she might shag you since you said that. in that case just don't resist.

gigi @ puaratings

I think you guys are on the right page. I think call her up and ask her to meet some where. Then Ill tell her that i dont want a relationship and that I am not tring to use her and that we can still hang as friends.

I never had a problem before with older women before. They usually just want a boy toy. But this lady has had a lot of problem in her past and i dont think she wants a bang buddy.

if you are having this problem, then you must care about her somewhat....why dont u try a relationship....if not, you have to tell her your intentions.

Ross Jeffries Rule - Always leave a girl better then she was before you met her.

dont break the rule man.

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You have to ask yourself whether or not you are ready for a relationship or if you still want to play the field. Until then, I say bang her as much as possible. Keep in mind that a real PUA keep playing the field always respecting the woman's feelings.

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i agree with you. I never said that I had feelings for this HB. All Isaid was that i didnt want to make her feel used.Before I got into the game, I didnt realy care about womens fellings.I would like to change that.