so i just made up a pretty impressive date plan and called the girl and she didnt answer. so i left a message; "heyy its mat, call me back when you get this". she called about 20 min later. i told her i called to see if she wanted to go out to dinner and she said she couldn't cause she had work. then i pulled some pretty embarrassing AFC moves; "oh alright thats fine, maybe another time." ect ect..

thast when i realized i need alot of work. i have it all in my head but i blank when im actually with a target.

but, for next time, how do i respond when she says you cant? what did i do wrong/right(if anything :/)

thanks

it could be legit though that she does have something. just jokingly say "ok i see how it is. your one of those flaky types arent you? haha" or the next time you see her say "your not going to flake out this time are ya?" or something like that. just whatever you do do it jokingly and try to have a good time while giving her a hard time

right..
dang. i ttoaly lost it. i need to gain control of all this. ive wanted this girl for so long, its ridiculous. that reminds me, these things can work with a girl you already know right? i was thinking it could be weird to completely change from no game to good game with in a few weeks/months. so far its worked though. a whole year of nothing(dates, kissing..touching in general ) to her kissing me on the cheek after a lunch date. and that was just from a few negs and DHVs. it definetly made me believe in all this.

I think you need to start reading. Start with the "GAME" And David De Angelo " Double Your Dating"

You are really insecure, and I think these books will build you up. I dont think theres anything anyone can say to this for it to be fixed until you learn the basics.

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